We are surrounded by an aura which requires every time to be with someone, whether they are humans, animals, birds or even stuffed toys in order to hide our hollowness behind the curtains. Nowadays, homo sapiens have become so dependent on one others that irrelevant on gravity of the job, they just simply need a companion with whom they'll dissipate their boredom and fill their soul. Sometime it feels so bizarre to watch how people have become so vulnerable to each other, that they don't even emphasize on the specific task or object but rather they'll choose to plan in what ways to mitigate their time while finishing the work.
Concept behind taking help or assistance:
Taking assistance is necessary to overcome physical, emotional as well as social needs when a job is out of the reach of an individual capacity . It is necessary to help a genuine person because if we won't it might leads to consequences such as injuries, depression, diseases or even severe fatality.
One famous quote which is well known between friends is "A friend in need is a friend indeed".
But asking help/assistance where it is not required at all is a bad etiquette ,this can lead to serious long-terms social impacts as follows and also gives a misconception for the people you are in actual need of assistance.
Social Impact:
Lack of confidence: Asking for help constantly can decrease your confidence or will make you incapable at the time when it is importantly required to complete that task all alone, especially in the case of emergencies.
Poor communication skills: A dependent person can never be a frontline speaker and normally choose to speak less during public interactions. They usually hide behind people's shadow and avoid such case scenarios.
No situational awareness: Situational awareness is very important in daily life, it is basically to observe the surroundings properly and then accordingly making final decisions. But now a days people are totally lost and disoriented when it comes to have a good observation skills.
Fear of being alone: Having pets, nanny, stuffed toys all the time is an indication of having fear of being alone. It can also cause some serious deterioration on your self belonginess.
Insomniac: A person who is unable to sleep due to many reasons ,but in this case it can occur due to lack of comfort requires by an individual when he/she is sleeping alone.
Mentally slow/Lack of knowledge: Mostly they are mentally weak and it can reflect in their educational performance specially in the subjects which requires intellectual thinking such as mathematics and science. They always stays behind in the que while suggesting new ideas during projects and on other platforms.
Takes no responsibly: As the heading suggests they are more likely to encourage the blame culture to save themselves. These peoples are not afraid to put relationships at stake and doesn't have any sense of gravity on connections/bonds between individuals.
Dependent on every jobs: Usually troubles parents, partner and colleagues for small piece of work and problems. Sometimes this person can trigger false alarms to get help in order to complete their tasks.
Poor physique: This is applicable to tasks involving physical strength where a reliant person will choose to ignore or hide behinds someone's back. They are mostly unhealthy, slow, idle and can have some serious heart complications too.
Last but not least , lack of leadership skills.
These are some essentials factors which has arise due to nature of being secondary in your life.
Suggestion:
I would like to take this opportunity to encourage those individuals to compete with the world irrespective on how big is the opportunity provided to them. It is better to be self dependent rather being the burden on others specially when it is so not necessary. This'll transform your personality into a whole new different one which is going to be positive, hardworking, optimistic, high on morale, confident ,an extrovert and a great leader.
" I think self reliance and self responsibility and self accountability will help you as a parent, a teacher, as a citizen and as a friend"
Thanks for reading!!
I used to be guilty of this some years ago,i was too dependent on my elder brother and it got to a point i could not do anything on my own without him,i got into so much emotional trauma when he travelled abroad for his degree programs,i became kind of depressed because he was not available to help me to do some certain things
I am glad you have understood the most important para from my article.
hope you will find success ahead emotionally as well.
Needing people's help constantly is not a healthy habit. To some extent it reduces the amount of respect one is accorded.
Being self dependent is key, while we may need help sometimes, it shouldn't be all the time.
exactly agree, I have been dependent on myself since early years of my life, which made me write this article.
Same goes for me too. I learnt to be self dependent very early in life, to the extent that I find it hard to ask for help when I really need it. I'm just used to handling myself.
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