Many times it happens that we feel tired accompanied by discouragement, which in the long run generates frustration for not achieving or not having the tools to achieve something that is desired, or perhaps some moments overwhelm more than necessary or the simple fact of going through circumstances that put check to mind and spirit. That is why it is important that as women we learn to control this feeling by following some tips that are so necessary.
Emotions that save.
It is normal that when what you want is not achieved you feel like throwing in the towel and not trying again. It happens that you say things to yourself, creating negative thoughts, you hurt yourself with your words because you belittle yourself. The fact is that it is valid to feel bad, where the detail is is how you take that feeling, so it is appropriate to say: I did not achieve it but then it will be better, I will try harder. Make your emotions a table to always float.Keep walking.
I read recently that no matter how many stones exist in your path, the essential thing is not to stop walking, and how right you are. There are struggles that are very complicated and exert a much greater force than others, so we must emphasize and remember that they are not related to achieving them, some escape us but the courage is in what you learn along the way, many times the prize is not winning.Do not follow the same pattern
"If you want different results, do not always do the same" and what does that imply? Change habits, be more analytical, provide yourself with questions that make you challenge yourself, reflect on yourself and always find viable solutions to the problems. circumstances you face.Change the speech
Lamenting is never healthy for the body and less for mental health, it deteriorates positive emotions and leads you to be pessimistic and you radiate that to everything around you. Avoid elevating those injustices of how unfair life is, call the positive by changing your way of thinking and speaking.Frustration is contagious.
I emphasize this point because at some point we have all put ourselves in this way with someone who says to us, don't do it, why are you trying so hard? You waste time, this will not improve, an endless number of sentences that create discomfort, the mind creates what it perceives, therefore do not give value to those who have negativity in their lives, those who do not take risks do not learn the result of perseverance.
The only person who has criteria in your decisions is you, no one else.
- A role model.
There are people who are examples of dedication and we admire those qualities, so analyze what you are looking for, where you are going and how you will do it, think what would that person who already achieved what they have do if they were in your place? In the long run, you will also be a reason for admiration by others, so be the person whom another wants to ask, inquire, know what motivated you, would you advise it well? Would you motivate him in the right way and not give up?
Treat yourself with that value as you would with others. Let's be encouraging women in the lives of others.......
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