Hello beautiful friends. Is with joy that I participate in this week 186, episode 1. I also wish us all a happy new week with all it's blessings.
Family is one major aspect of humanity that I see as a blessing to us. Without a family we are nothing because we need a family to belong. I believe that everyone is connected to one family or the other and we can't boast of our existing without a family. No one just came out on his or her own. We have fathers and mothers, brothers and sisters. Uncle and aunties. All of those that makes up a family.
Having said that, we also noticed that we can't throw away family just because they are bad or not living up to standard. We are all stick together no matter what. But we still have our differences. We can't deny that fact because we have our ways of understanding and interpreting things concerning this life. I am not also ignorant of the fact that sometimes even our parents stand against what we want to become in life. Or even standing against our progress. At this point we should know where to draw the line. There must be boundaries even in the family. No one should be hurt unnecessarily. We should all know that where my own right stops is where another person's right begin. That we are all family does not give anyone the right to treat another person with contempt or disregard.
HOW TO HANDLE A HURT FROM THE FAMILY WE LOVE.
I believe that no matter how careful we try to be in our families we must experience hurts sometimes. I have seen situations where people in the same family get too hurt that it lead to police station. It is still the same family members that will go for their bails. We can't run away from being hurt and sometimes it even come from that same person you trust so much in the family and that is the reason why it hurts too much. If is coming from an outsider or an enemy, it will be fair, but because is coming from the people we love so much.
What I do most times when I get hurt by a family member is to learn to let go easily because wether I like it or not we are families. We can't throw them away just because they hurt us. But I also try to sit down with that person when the situation has calm to say my feelings. Sometimes it is acceptable and some times it will not be regarded. Nonetheless, I will still have to let go and move on from that.
Forgiveness is actually a big healing to the person that is hurt and most times not the person that hurts. If I forgive the person that wronged me, I will feel better and it will be easier for me to move on.
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Hmmm, forgiveness is a healing balm indeed to the person that has the scar with him or herself. Thanks for sharing.