The Palestinians would have had a quite easy pathway: swallow your anger, be peaceful and try to make the little land you have left prosper, try to cooperate with the state of Israel or at least some influential Isralis. If you then present your case to the international society you might very easily push Israel into a corner where they have to give in to your demands.
Literally been happening for years, there are millions of refugees, displaced, and ethnically cleansed and your response seems to be "If you're a good kid, I will let you have some of your own chocolate". It's not been happening, it has been proven over and over that silence just leads to more lands taken. In fact, it was the silence that eventually led to Hamas' rise. It's literally in the post how Tantura and other massacre survivors' Right of Return is denied. I don't know how you got to your "Just be a good dog" conclusion, but it has been proven to be wrong thousands of times, it's literally being proven wrong every day in the West Bank.
I might actually make a post why October 7th was far worse than 9/11.
Not sure about worse or definitely "Far worse", but I really don't disagree with the logic here.