Hello everyone you're welcome to my blog today.
Today I'm going to be talking about behavior what is behavior. Behavior comprises of our response our actions towards other people in our environment and our surrounding , how we attend to things around us. Human beings are unique and their different ways and we all have different behavioral patterns, that has to do with the way, we react to some situations that happen in our life. All these things make up our behavioral pattern and it is very rare for you to see exactly the same thing in another person each individual is different and have their own behavior that is attributed to them alone.
I believe it is possible to learn behaviors from other people but I don't think it can be inherited, I can meet someone today let's say somebody I look up to as a mentor and I see some certain traits about this person that I want to emulate then I start practicing it judiciously. What do you think the outcome would be definitely I would see myself developing that behavior as time goes on, so behavioral patterns can be learned but they can't be inherited although I feel some people that say a particular family member behave like l someone else in the family that they didn't meet alive. I don't know if that is genetics or whatever but I've seen that happen and looking at it gives off the fact that behavioral patterns can be inherited I still have my reservation on that.
Kids grow up to become good adults if their parents train them well ,when a child is born he or she does not know anything . Children look up to their parents to teach them good and bad behaviors and whatever they teach them is what they would grow up with and that is the same behavior that they would display when they are outside their family. Mind you not all children with bad behavior come from bad homes, some parents do the best job at training their kids well inculcating good morals and behaviors in them but when this kids go out and mingle with people who are of bad morals and bad behavior corrupts good conduct .
Yes I know of a child who had good parents but yet he turned out to be bad and actually what happened was simple and clear to everyone he joined bad friends he learned a lot of bad things from them and forgot all that his parents taught him at home. It even go to a point that he beat up his mom and threw her out of the house because she later lost her husband. So children from good homes can turn back if the mingle with the one people.
And also I have seen my friend who are adults now who if they tell you about their family background you would ask them how did you manage to turn out so good ,sometimes we just have to sit ourselves down and really know what we want for ourselves and work towards it bad parents or good parents at some point in your life the decision to become somebody responsible and to fulfill purpose is in our hands.
A lot of fact of determine the kind of adult a child will be when they grow up to mention a few it includes good parenting, discipline, teaching children do we have God and good education. These are the things that my parents did for my siblings and i. Today we have turned out to be the best we can be in life and also working towards being better than who we are now and where we are now. My parents would always see bad morals corrupts good conduct, this is said every day in my house and it has helped my siblings and I so much to make decisions that affect our life and turn out to be responsible adults.
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We have all seen people come from very rough backgrounds but still turned out good, sometimes it is just the path tye person chooses to follow.
Honestly, if a parents teaches their child or teach their child about good morals and the child mingles with bad friends and later inculcate what the friends are doing then it's not the parents fault because it's the child choice to behave such way. Some child will grow up in a broken home yet grow up to become successful.
What I believe is that this thing is like a two edged sword, a child can still choose to do otherwise if he's easily affected by peer pressure