Greetings everyone!
Everyone of us have different life and everyone of us think very differently. Well everyone of us judge each other and think about them, and sometime even we need to judge ourselves or the thought automatically comes in our mind that what other or second person in thinking about you. We never know that what other person is thinking or what his thoughts are all we can do is assume but more important then before we judge no is perfect in this world there is always something in a person which other person don't like or whatever.
Well if I say about myself how me and even my friends judge each other. Actually we have a big group but so of course everyone of us are getting judge but the best part of us that we roast each other directly on the face there are no back bitch. Whatever their behavior is or how they react in any of the situation if someone is really offensive or doing something any person don't like we just shout out loudly and say in front of everyone. Well this are only between us but we never say to the person in front of other people.
Let me share you the best example of how I think of myself and how my friends think for me and how do I try to get them. As we play cricket a lot and of course not everyone are good in sports but yeah I dominate in my friends group and even though they believe this. Out of 16 players there are 10 players who play really well and we divide them equally so we go against each other. As one of us is captain who leads the team when and where players should get use.
So of course in the game there are some pressure situation where everyone think different about me and I think different about them. So at that moment I need to go through them they thought I will bowl or bat too good. But even I know where I can perform really well, but still I don't break there trust on me I just go out in the pressure situation and I perform many times really well. But sometimes it also happen that I outwork the game, it happens usually because as I said no one is perfect.
So I think when people think different about you and you think different about them, you should never go against them well sometimes depend on the situation but instead going against too them, start thinking how they think about you and go with the flow. This will really help you a lot to make a good character and a bond between you and other person. Well no one think such kind of things, but definitely I think now again the same situation even on this platform, might be some people think different about me and even I but I will try to flow with your thoughts to keep the bond.
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wow this really made me think about my own group. being a teen is basically just being judged 24/7 by everyone lol. i love what u said about roasting friends to their face instead of back bitching. me and my friends do the same when we are gaming. if someone breaks the rule we just yell at them right there.
the cricket example is cool because i get that pressure too. everyone thinks u are a pro and u dont want to let them down even if u feel nervous inside. it is like when i post on hive and worry if people will like my post or not. sometimes u just have to go with the flow like u said and build that bond. i try to do that here on hive too even if i am just a kid. no one is perfect but trying to understand how others think is big brain move. thanks for sharing this perspective!
Exactly, people have different perceptions about others, and understanding them will help you to bond well, irrespective of what.
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