Good day, amazing people of the Hive Blockchain. Welcome back to my blog. It is another edition in the #hivelearners community. I am so delighted to participate in this week's prompt, ghosting.
For someone like me Ghosting is something that will not come to my mind because I am this kind of lady that loves peace of mind so much that if by any means someone wrongs me, I will communicate with the person so that the person involved will know that he or she has wronged me. One thing I don’t like is someone assuming things without verifying them. It came to a point in my life when I realised that no matter how much I try to be at peace with everyone around me, it is not working, which is why I can’t be on everyone’s good page.
At some point in my life, I realised that there is nothing bad in ghosting someone; most times it is the best decision. I have some friends I have shut out of my life. The moment I get to know who they truly are, I have to ghost them in my life. One thing about me is I can’t have a friend who will bite me in the back, and such a person will still want us to be friends. I always tell myself true friends will stick with you, and for those who are fake, there is always a way of shutting them out, and ghosting is one of the options.Life we live in is like a market, so are friends that come into our life; some will stand by you, while some will betray and hurt you.
One thing about me is I return whatever energy you give me. If you ghost me, I ghost you too, and you will stop existing in my life. I will not communicate, text or check up on you; no goodbye. That is ghosting for me. We decide to ghost each other, probably because we are not feeling the energy again; we don’t align at all most times. Some issues are better left undiscussed.
There is a particular girl that used to be my friend. I had to ghost her. Believe me, I will never reverse it. I love the way I am now: a small circle of friends that are real and not having friends that are fake. This young lady was the first girl I vibed with in my place of work, but whenever she sees me with the male colleague around me, she is always bitter. I receive the shock of my life the very day she wakes up to me telling me I am a silent killer. There is no abusive word she didn’t tell me that faithful day. I was so lost because I needed to know what the problem was. I was in so much pain because on normal ground she is not supposed to talk to me because I am her senior colleague at work.
After that incident, I ghosted her in my life. For me, she doesn’t exist. If I ghost anyone in my life, I shut them out completely; nothing will ever bring me back to the person. I don’t ghost, but if I do, there is no going back.
This is my entry on the weekly prompts #hivelearners #hl-w184e1 topic: ghosting.
Thank you for stopping by my blog. I appreciate your comments, support and upvotes. Do have a lovely day.
Posted Using INLEO
I thinks there is nothing bad as such with it, it all depends on the level of your understanding with that individual, sometimes you have to do that just signals warning to their attention, because some people can be distracting ehh...
It actually hurts when something happens to us which we can't expect and if there's a need for ghosting.... Let it do for our betterment
!PIZZA
Ghosting is not all bad oo, sometimes it brings the most peace and quiet. Just disappear, no words, no explaining or forcing them to act right.
Honestly, it's absolutely normal to cut off someone who's not on the right wavelengths with one. People only make it look like it's a bad thing to ghost someone whereas it's a normal part of life. I'd rather not talk to a dude that frustrates the hell out of me than to keep him around all in the name of being nice.
$PIZZA slices delivered:
@les90(3/10) tipped @cindynancy
Come get MOONed!