Hi Hivelearners friends.
We see that after school ends, parents decide which field their children will continue their studies in, which is essential for their future. But we have also seen that children do not like that study. Now, parents say that their child should become a doctor, but he is not interested, but when his parents force him, he goes into this field, but the harm of this is later revealed when Four or five years pass, but when he is not interested in any field,
And if he joins, he is only trying to please his parents, and there he does not find people according to his nature because they are not from his field. If a person likes engineering and he becomes a doctor, he will become a very bad doctor or he will not be able to become one at all. Here, parents also have to think that children should be given freedom and they should select their own field so that in the future they can become good doctors or good engineers.
If this continues, in the future we will see that children will start making their own decisions because now they are not allowed to do this. We have seen that whenever people are asked, they have said that we definitely want to change our college or university. If it was under our control, we would do what we like and then be more successful in it. And when the field is of our choice, people will also talk more about it, so knowledge is also gained.
[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/brown-concrete-palace-under-blue-sky-at-daytime-d6ebY-faOO0)
I myself had changed my field at the behest of one of my cousins, and I still think to this day that I wish I had not listened to him at that time, so that I could have obtained the degree I liked and continued in that field If I had gone ahead, things would have been much easier for me in the future. As wise people say, if we are doing something we like, it seems like a game to us and we learn it much better and much faster.
And if we have studied, we will remember it quickly. But if it is not our choice and it is being forced upon us, we will not be able to become good and successful people even after working hard. Therefore, we will have to think about everything ourselves, what is our interest in, and we will have to do everything in the thing we are interested in. We will have to work hard, only then will we be happy.
If we are doing something we like, studying, then the benefit of it is that we will get more success with less effort and less time. And if it is not our choice, then we will not be able to get success even if we work hard for more time. If I had chosen a field of my choice at that time, my life might be a little more difficult today. If I had chosen something I liked and been successful, my life might have been easier.
[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/people-sitting-on-chair-in-front-of-computer-YRMWVcdyhmI)
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Parents forcing their children to study courses they don't like hardly ends well. Not just for the child or the parents but also for the community at large. Sadly, many parents are still doing this till today.
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