When I was depressed, I used to have such a bad feel

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Hi #Hivelearners community.

Today's topic is interesting and I have learned a lot after reading people's posts about how we can recover from depression, so I am going to share many special things with you because some time ago I myself went into depression and it was not easy to get out of it because the worst thing that happens in depression is that a person always wants to be alone and lock himself inside a room and the bar doesn't want to go at all,

That's why the person goes deeper into depression, nothing looks good, neither the outside world looks good nor anything else. So now the question is that why we people go into depression, so I have read many answers in people's posts, so I will share some knowledge that I have with you. The kind of situations that are going on today, especially those who are from the middle class family and those who are from a good family,

Both go into depression because when a person works hard and does not get success, then the middle class people who are there go inside depression because when a person studies a long time and a lot of hard work. He does it, but then there is no job, because of which the family members talk about what they are, so the person is looking for a job, they are not getting it, so they have to listen to the words of every other person that you are not earning,


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That's why most of the boys who are there go into depression because when you have studied so much. If so, then you can't do the labor. You have to wait for some time. And then when there is no solution left for them, they see the way out here, which is suicide. We have seen many cases in which boys commit suicide, but this is a very wrong thing.

Nothing can ever be solved and problems should never be solved like this because life only comes once and should not be wasted like this when I went into depression. There can be only two stories of going into depression, either a person can't do business well, then one goes into depression, if he doesn't get a job, he goes into depression, and the other is that the boys nowadays are very emotional in the matter of love.

If this happens to them too, they go into a lot of depression and keep thinking that if they don't get this girl, they will end their lives. We have seen here in front of our own eyes that boys have committed suicide in the absence of love, so they never think about how their parents will fail after they are gone. If you are going to spend your life in trouble, before taking any such step, a person must think about his family and when I went into depression,


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I also intended to do something similar, but later. Then after working hard, some things became right, then success also started. It is a fact that success comes from only one thing and that is hard work. If you don't get success after hard work, then there is depression, so the best thing in depression is that you should talk to a doctor and you should do it in the same way as it is for a doctor.

Then, when I came out of these conditions, I made up my mind to never think like that again, because when a person sits alone in a room and thinks, the same wrong thoughts come. There will be problems and difficulties, but if it is true, we will solve it by helping each other. This is the only way. So now here I will share another incident that is the incident of a friend of mine.


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He went to Dubai three times and didn't get a job and after coming here, the people here in our city do a lot of wrong, especially those who are relatives, they talk a lot, which makes a person disheart. Life was in trouble because of not getting a job, then every time he met a relative, he used to tell him to work, even though this boy has worked hard in every place, but still he is not getting success.


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There was a day when he got worried because of what people were saying and went to the train and after that he made a call due to which we went and rescued him. If not, he became very desert and was about to end his life, just saying that there will be no life, nor will you have to listen to people like this, so that's how I tell people that difficult situations and times. It can happen to every person,

So it is better that one should not talk against anyone, he should be reassured that some time will pass, within the next time there will be success, if all people start doing this, then commit suicide. People will stop doing it. Then after that we explained it a lot and we went out at night and things like that relax the mind again so it's better that we never have to put ourselves in a room like that.


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I should not stop, otherwise the person would not even know what he is doing. There was another friend, he loved a girl, and that girl was not getting him, so he took seven pills together. Because of this, we took him to the hospital.

The doctors were saying that if it had been a little longer, it would have been difficult for him to survive. Then I went and explained some things in his mind, then till now he did not do any such action. Then after that when his parents found out, they were crying a lot about how it was going to work. If anyone in the world truly loves, they are only parents.


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Getting yourself out of depression is tough but not impossible,
Nice to read your post :)

 last month  

Thanks alot dear.

Actually that stoff call depression is not something one can play with we need to learn how to keep calm