MY FIRST TIME OF HAVING A HEART-TO-HEART TALK WITH MY BROTHER

in Hive Learners2 years ago (edited)

Yesterday was fun and so fulfilling, as we all know it was Sunday and also the day we celebrate the giants in the world, it is Mothering Sunday when we celebrate our mothers.

I woke up early yesterday and did the house chores because it was Sunday and it is a day to go and worship God, should I say it is a tradition in this part of the country that we must obey our Sundays as Christians, people tend to believe that as a Christian you must go to church every Sunday.

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I woke up and dressed for church in my lovely attire to celebrate all the mothers who truly deserve to be mothers, the service was awesome and I enjoyed every bit of the service, I danced like no tomorrow because I was happy that one day I will be a mother and I will be celebrated like this.

After the church service I planned to enter the mall to get my skincare products, I have been procrastinating for a very long time because I still have some that I am using but yesterday I overcame it.

I entered ShopRite and did some shopping, things were so expensive and the price of most of the products was nothing to write about, I was scared about the prices and was contemplating if to get them or not but later I decided to get them, I left there and went straight to my house.

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In the evening my brother called me and said we should go out and have fun because since I got back from church I was inside pressing my phone and chatting with friends online, actually, I love to do laundry after church on Sunday but yesterday was different.

Since my brother had plans for the evening I had to postpone all the activities for the day, he said I should not bother to cook anymore since we would be eating out, this part got me because my brother is someone who doesn't like eating outside or Maybe he wants to ease my stress by not cooking.

I was happy when he said so and he said do I have any place I would love to visit, I have been craving barbeque for some days now, so I decided to use that opportunity to get one for myself, I know a lovely barbeque joint in my area so I told my brother let's do local today, doing local means going to a local bar, and he said no problem.

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In the evening we entered the local bar and I ordered the barbeque I had been craving and they said barbeque was not available, I was angry and couldn't leave again so I ordered pepper soup and a chilled drink to calm the Sunday, I enjoyed my Sunday and I got into serious discussion with my brother, my brother is someone who will not tell you what is bothering him unless the thing is ready to take his life.

I was so happy when we sat down and he was telling me what was going on with him, I never knew my brother was going through a lot and we are in the same house but I was able to know more about his situation yesterday which we had already discussed about it and also the way out.

Yesterday was fun and I wish I could have more time with my brother as I did yesterday.

NOTE:- ALL THE PICTURES ARE
MINE

This is my entry for this week's episode of hivelearners community prompt of #hl-w105e1

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 2 years ago  

You did all these without tell me 😂 we are going to fight. Well I'm happy you were able to enjoy yourself and have a good time with your brother.

Please pass me my own pepper soup im already salivating.

 2 years ago  

You were busy forming big boy now, the pepper soup has finished so go and sleep

 2 years ago  

Omo!
You won!
You won the best outing of the day....look at plate of pepper soup 😋.

Talking about skin care products, after saying for almost a year without cream, I decided to go and look out for one on Saturday, the price chased me back 🥹

 2 years ago  

You don't need a skin care Kingsley. You be woman 👩🏻? Hahaha 😝. See yourself with price now. Go rest !

 2 years ago  

Hahahah🤣🤣

Come let's talk.

The skin care here means CREAM ooo! I don't mean the many many many packs of liquid.

 2 years ago  

I hear you. Men don’t have time for cream. Just go and buy Vaseline Intensive. You will use it for almost six months. Just so mild to the body and so good. No talk say nah me direct you ooh! Am off Enjoy your day 😍.

 2 years ago  

Lol🤣
I hope this Vaseline intensive is not up to N500? If it's up to, then I would continue using the olive/anointing oil I've been using 🫣

 2 years ago  

Hahaha 🤣🤣. N500? You are not yet ready for a cream. Its from N1,800 - N2,500.00 now but will last so long.

Olive/anointing oil so good for everyday blessings and good luck as we start the day, but it darkens the skin over time especially during dusty season.

No good lotion is N500 now. Unless locally mix without approval. Close eye 👁 buy better cream. Am off.

 2 years ago (edited) 

Hahahaha🤣
It seems I just found the skin therapist I've been searching for.
I actually made enquiries on creams for light complexion which I got good recommendation but the prices are just too off.

The one I normally use when I feel I want to do cream skyrocketed from 1k to 3.5k. it's just too much. I just removed my face from anything cream and settled for anointing oil.
But currently, I think my skin is darkened and I need to lighten up a little again...
It's so bad that creams that we used to get at a very cheap rate are another thing now😭.

That cream is usable by light skinned people, right? Let me hustle hard and go for it

 2 years ago  

Interesting one sis. Having time out with our loved ones is always something so exciting. Am happy you too got into some private discussion which he tabled out because of the trust he has in you as sister.

Thanks for also honoring mothers for the special day recognized for all mothers. Wishing you the best as you dream becoming a mother one day.
Enjoy your week beautiful 😍.

 2 years ago  

Nice one. Having time out with our loved ones is very exciting, I must say you look gorgeous in your outfit.

 2 years ago  

Thank you my dear

It is true that it is so easy to talk to friends or even cousins from far away places than it is to talk to people you live with, especially siblings. At some point one just starts assuming one knows whats going in their lives and don't really ask. Same happens everywhere I think. It is good you had a chance to have a good discussion time with him.

Cheers from a fellow #dreemerforlife

 2 years ago  

You had a very awesome and fun filled day. The awesomeness of the day is evident in your attire, elegant. I don't why it's very common for one to know more about loved ones outside than the people we are living under the same roof with. I am glad that you used the opportunity to have a successful talk with your brother.

Cheers from a #dreemer
#dreemerforlife