Cheaters have a conscience but they just choose to bury it even when it is haunting them. The two experiences you have shared must have gotten to you badly, I don't know what people gain from cheating but it's not a behaviour that should be encouraged or allowed to grow.
In as much as it leaves a mark on the hearts of the victims, it also leaves a stain on the culprit.
I respect your feelings and thoughts about love but it does exist ... Sending hugs all the way from Nigeria.
Cheating isn't allowed by any culture but people perform it so commonly I consider it moral corruption and the root of all evil. Being broken in relationships or getting despondent as others have snatched your opportunity by cheating these all are the same to bury someone alive. I appreciate your feedback, George, 🪄✨