My Love History: First Love - Real Love Or Fantasy

in Hive Learners3 years ago

I loved the way he makes me laugh as no one has ever made me laugh that hard. He was just so available anytime I want to talk and anytime I feel down. Should I talk about the gift he always buy when he comes around or the money he give to me any time we meet.

I was so in love with him, I not only feel comfortable around him, I felt secured as well. He was just acting like my big brother 🙄🙄 which I was kinda cool with. I was always waiting for him to officially ask me out because I was already telling my friends about him and they loved him too.

Some of them were jealous about how I loved him so madly, one even went to the extent of stealing his contact from my phone🤣🤣 but guess what??? My love told me about it as he was so honest, that's one quality I appreciate about him. Months passed and I still haven't heard, 'will you be my date'? Or I am interested in you and I want us to build a family together.

Have I told you guys about his cute eyes?
Did I mention to you how strong he looks, the muscles and the height? Or his hairy body? He was just my perfect gentle man. 😀

Well, I was doing some laundry outside the house when my mum was busy dancing and laughing. When I asked what happened?, she said mr jay (let's just call him that) was getting married and he just called to inform us about the date and inviting the whole family. Did I also mentioned he is also a family friend and my dad like him so much as well.

My heart was broken into pieces 💔💔 how I wish my mum knew I loved him and he broke my heart then maybe she wouldn't be dancing that way .🙄🙄 So all these while I was catching feelings for the uncle, he was playing big brother with my heart, 💜 who even send him to be that? I cried my eyes out and I couldn't tell anyone why I was so bittered and sad. I didn't talk to him for a long time and he was curious why, but why does he care?

However, I blamed myself for falling in love with him may be I was not good enough for him 🤔 or I wasn't that beautiful. Many thoughts ran through my 17years old mind and I built a wall around myself to protect my heart. But hey! Come on I was still tender at heart and still a novice and I didn't know how love works, as at then. Thank God he didn't take advantage of my young and innocent heart then and I am very sure he doesn't even know I loved him. 😄😄😄

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But many years after that I found my real first love this time around he asked me out I wasn't dating him in my head. He is so soft and sweet, he treats me like a queen I sometimes pinch myself to be sure I wasn't dreaming but it's a reality. His intentions were pure and genuine, he wasn't a player. His voice can melt a strong metal, his eyes were like that of a dove, he is the king of my heart and officially my first true love, my best friend and my gist mate. My favourite place to go when my mind search for peace, my pain relief, my most dependable support system, my strongest weakness.

March 13th was the most memorable day of my life because we tied the marital knot on that day. I love being his wife because he makes me want to improve on my personality, I am so grateful we chose each other. I was glad that he didn't serve me breakfast (that's another way of saying break up). I never regret my choice and I am enjoying every day with the love of my life.

He has been an amazing hubby, a supportive friend, a caring father, an amazing friend, my super hero and my number one fan. Everyday spent with him builds my love and respect for him. So yes he is officially my first love.

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With my official first love.

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My strongest weakness.

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With our baby on our first wedding anniversary.

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It ended in premium joy

This is my entry to the #hivelearners question.

Thanks for reading this far.

Note: All pictures are mine although some were taken in a studio while others were taken using my phone.

Thanks For your supports and care, my health is getting better now.

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 3 years ago  

Love is indeed a beautiful thing.

Looking at your pictures makes me want to fall in love.💝

 3 years ago  

Awwwn 🥰.

Looking at your pictures makes me want to fall in love.💝

It's a blessing if you fall in love with the right one. Understanding is key.

I wish you the best in the quest to find love.

 3 years ago  

This is so beautiful, look at your family happy and the kid too
Love is truly a beautiful thing..it is very amazing to see

 3 years ago  

Thanks so much. Love is indeed a beautiful thing. 💃💃💃.

Thanks

 3 years ago  

Baby boy is Daddy's looks like..this children will not even pity us small....make the resemblance 50/50 atleast🙄

 3 years ago  

Seriously, I think we will start negotiating with them from the womb, it's 50/50 at least it or no breastfeeding. Lol

 3 years ago  

Hehehehe yes o

Wow... you are really enjoying the dividends of being in love and being loved. Stories like yours are what people need to hear so they can know that true love indeed exists.
Thank you for sharing this with us.

 3 years ago  

Awww...You guys are so cute together

 3 years ago  

Thanks so much 🥰

 3 years ago  

Love is indeed beautiful
Cutie fam💞🧡

Much love from me❤️

Glad your health is much better now 👍

 3 years ago  

Thanks so much sis.

I really appreciate your supports and concerns. I'm really better by the days although I still need some serious sleep.

 3 years ago  

It's really not a good idea to start Loving someone in ones mind without the man asking the lady out... But, thank God you were able to survive the mini heart break and found the love of your life. You guys really look good together. Nice pictures, happy family.

 3 years ago  

It's really not a good idea to start Loving someone in ones mind without the man asking the lady out.

I learnt the hard way. Lol. Looking back now though, I realize it was mainly fantasy that drove my inexperienced mind then.

You guys really look good together. Nice pictures, happy family.

Thanks so much.

 3 years ago  

You two looks too good together and altogether makes a perfect family . I enjoyed going through your love story . You are lucky to have a doting husband. Have a good time friend!

 3 years ago  

Thanks so much for the complements 🥰

 3 years ago  

Have I told you guys about his cute eyes?
Did I mention to you how strong he looks, the muscles and the height? Or his hairy body? He was just my perfect gentle man. 😀

Love o, chai😂😂

he was playing big brother with my heart

This one hit me😂

he is the king of my heart and officially my first true love, my best friend and my gist mate. My favourite place to go when my mind search for peace, my pain relief, my most dependable support system, my strongest weakness.

Wow, my heart just melted on behalf of the gentleman.

With our baby on our first wedding anniversary

You guys look absolutely beautiful as a family.

 3 years ago  

Thanks so much 🥰.