Hi guys, this is hive elite. Today I will be talking about friendship. People come together and associate for several reasons. It is the nature of human beings to associate with people. A lot of people associate for the sake of their emotional and mental well-being, personal learning, work, hobbies, and professional reasons. Your network is people that you associate yourself with, they include your social and professional circles.
The way humans associate in life has a measure of impact on the lifestyle that we portray and shapes our experiences.
Friendship exists as a means of association where people share a bond line. Friendship can be a personal association. In a good friendship or bond between two people, the relationship should be a form of a handshake. Friendship creates a support system.
That is an opportunity for one party to provide support for the other party. A good friend should be able to help his partner when they need help.
Friends share mutual affection, one is concerned about the situation of the other partner. This also gives the mindset that whatever happens to one will also affect the other. This makes it possible for them to be able to support each other.
Friends are meant to depend on each other, hence they need to rely on each other.
If one is in a situation, for example.
There are three friends, two of them were brilliant but the third one is not brilliant. When they were in primary school, the two of them were outstanding in the class, and they knew that the third one is not brilliant. After the class, they will take their time to teach him.
Try their best to make him know how to solve problems. Even if he could not solve the questions solved in the class but after the class they will make sure that he can solve all the problems and also treat more examples together. They were able to make it to help him to make good grades in all the exams they did together without examination malpractices.
What a genuine friends they are, the friendship is a wonderful bond and many people want to be like them. They got to secondary school and the friendship continues. Friend C has improved and gained confidence but he did not realize it. His continuous good grades in the examination were unstoppable.
At the end of high school, they all departed due to different career pursuits.
His first semester at University was not impressive because the initial association was not there anymore. He decided to do it alone by applying the principles his friends taught him, and the results were wonderful ever after.
He might have lost interest in education if it was not for the sake of his friends. They were able to support him until he found the potential in himself. These are the kind of support friendship should offer.
There are many things that friendship should offer, such as companionship, loyalty, openness, honesty, and wiliness to listen to each other.
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In primary school? That's totally unbelievable.
Nobody is buying this BS story.
When I was in primary I don't have that sense of reasoning to study with friends, because all I know then is to play and sleep and I don't even know how I managed to pass not to talk of teaching someone in my primary school days.
In Nigeria we only have colleges and secondary school, but you made mention of high school how?
Also you talked about network is it MTN or Glo?
I don't think I made mention of Nigeria sir.
You didn't mention Nigeria. You didn't mention the country either.
Your story is very contradictory. At some point, you mentioned primary school, at a later point, it became high school. This is very very contradictory. What system of education are you referring to? Montessori or American system? You can only pick one, and not both.
If you're telling a story for the purpose of motivation or for a lesson to be learned, it should be told from personal experience. It shouldn't be via a story that is obviously made up.
If you insist on defending yourself by claiming it's from personal experience, then I should remind you that you're a Nigerian in Nigeria. And your above reply to @doforlove shows that your story is not being told from the Nigerian perspective. Which once again, makes it invalid as you've not lived outside Nigeria to be able to have a personal experience outside the system.
I don't have a childhood friend though but I have met a few who were very supportive
I don't have childhood friends either.