This topic is in a good turn relate to the married, so I will be talking based my own experience and what I feel about the whole thing. While preparing for wedding, I had no intentions to stay a while with my husband before having a baby because if not for any other thing I was already advancing in age. But after the wedding one of our friends encouraged us to spend at least one whole year together so as to understand ourselves before adding a member.
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We bought the idea immediately and was trying to play safe without knowing that I was already pregnant. At this point we are left with the option of keeping the baby or terminating it. Good enough we went with later. Personally, terminating a pregnancy to me is equalled to wasting a life. There are those who didn't plan for the baby to go out but it happened to them, for those who do it deliberately is not in any way good to be heard at all. If you have a feel of what many go through as a result of looking for the fruit of the womb , one will even prefer to even give birth and give to another who is in need one one for himself.
There are many ways one can help himself or herself if not yet ready for a baby or have gotten the number desired though on my own part am not comfortable with many of them. Most people I know that used the contraceptive one way or the other have had experience with it. Many of them especially those that didn't run test before the use ended up not having another baby when they which to do so. The other person I spoke with have to now get some drugs which could her balance her hormones.
Partners should throughly have a say that is when they are going to discourage them from doing it. I know of a woman that even till date she is yet to have her baby because while she was yet younger she got pregnant for a guy and ended up terminal it. Many of the doctors don't know the technicality and some people especially the young girls go to quack places and they don't know their womb have been damaged. I truly fear abortion even more than abola because of the side effects that it possess it have on the people who go through it.
The truth remains that many issues married people go through in marriage is as a result of childbirth so I don't see any reason why someone with a full chest should remove the one they have gotten. The only reason why I will support anyone to remove a pregnancy is only when there is a medical issue surrounding her at the time of pregnancy and the only way to save her life is to terminate the pregnancy. 17th November is a day for preterm babies, so I have a friend whose son was born in less than 30 months but it was as a result of underlining issues which almost claimed her life not that she intentionally decided to remove her baby before time. Today the baby is almost a year old and they are all doing well.
Waying options before going for it is best for any couple so as to avoid future regrets. Thank you for reading.
