Not everything we feel that we cannot do is bad, but just for our personality sack, we find out that we are not moved to do them. We are all different in many ways. If not for anything but our background or even our make-up.
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Since I got to know myself am the kind of person that doesn't find pleasure in just ideal seating, what I mean by this is, that I don't imagine myself just coming out in the compound constantly to seat and gist with people. For me, I see that as wasting of time. My precious time that I will use to do productive things I will now come and seat and talk what?
During my university days, my roommates complained that am always on my own, any day I feel like listing they get surprised at it. Some of them do say am not friendly and when they now see me laughing 🤣 they get interested. In my first, I make sure it is a productive one.
Then now am married I didn't stop that not to talk of now that I work online, my neighbors are saying the same too. One day one of them said, "Mommy Charis, you don't even come out for us to gist", I ask her just like that. Too much talking brings issues especially when it is not coordinated. When I sent that reply she said it was true. Since then I have had my peace am not been bothered with much talk again. If I need to do anything outside, I go and do it then return inside. In a long, while I come out to gist and then allow the children to get some fresh air outside.
This has saved me a lot, hardly you hear unnecessary things from me. Not that gisting is bad in its sense, but it's not my thing and I can't force it. I prefer to do my work gently, sleep when I need to then attend to my family's needs.
This is my entry for the hive learners week 26 edition 3contest. I hope you enjoyed reading my post. We will meet again next week. Happy weekend.
You're just yourself, Wow even now that you are married you still maintain the same thing. I really appreciate your consistency in this even though others might not understand because of our peculiarity in perception.
Thanks for sharing
Thank you for your interest
I really appreciate your unique character