That’s just it, mama.
The moment we have a plan B there is high chances that of plan A failing. Your plan B should be your plan A.
People are obviously divorcing more these days because they see marriage as something that once you don’t feel like it again, it’s fine to call it quits.
Like you concluded, everyone has their choices but we hope they make the better choices. If you are not ready to be “ONE” with someone forever, you should not be thinking about marriage. Go and play, sleep, do your favorite things or something. Don’t spoil the marriage thing for others.
Yes, even if one needs to have a plan B, it should be when achieving some things where A might not work and you quickly switch to another B and in the end, you achieve a good result but as in the case of marriage, you should have just a goal which is making it last long and enjoying. When you start having another plan like divorce or separation which is what God never want for us, then, we are trying to doubt if such marriage would work or stand and this is where the devil waits for us.
If one isn't ready to be committed to marriage or entering in for the wrong intention, then they shouldn't take the step. These are people who paint marriage as bad for others but you know, what doesn't work for someone might work for another, it all depends on how we handle such. Marriage is a sacred bond and should be treated as one.
Thank you, @hopestylist for your beautiful comment. I appreciate your time.
Exactly! If you are planning for your marriage to fail, it will definitely fail because you already have a plan in place and somehow, it will definitely want to be used.
That’s right, they are the ones making so many people see marriage as a no go area.
It’s my pleasure sharing my thoughts with you, mama. 🥰