Ghosting 101: When It’s Okay to Vanish and When It’s Just Lame

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Everyone have ghosted someone at some point in life or should I say everyone have been ghosted by someone once or more, maybe you're getting ghosted everyday by someone different and I can tell it's not fun


As someone who's retired now and passed the torch to new generation already I can tell it is tiresome when you get ghosted and it makes you feel like you're the clown which is true in that case.

Ghosting in the big 25 isn't cool

I kinda want to meet people who still ghost nowadays like what you think who you're? Ana de armas or Angelina Jolie? I'd be fine being ghosted by celebrities or A-tier people

Who have got net worth in billions and following in millions

But these people got none of that yet they ghost others like they're getting paid to ghost. It ain't the ego thing, they think ghosting is cool

Would make them look mysterious, smart and attractive person to that other one but it's quite the stupid. You make yourself fool by doing that.

I ain't ranting all that because I've been ghosted by my crush or something. I'd never give up just like that, you'll find me stalking in the street or doing some insane level stalking if only I had a crush on someone but there's no ana de armas out here in my neighborhood neither Angelina Jolie so my standards in woman have always been like that which is why I've never been ghosted by anyone.

it Makes Sense When

Only time when I ghosted someone was because of constantly being annoyed and being contacted only when the other person needs my help with something

It totally makes sense to ghost anyone who only contacts you at times of need like bro can't you say hi, wassup on a random day

So yea I've ghosted quite a lot of friends who were for a reason and totally had cut off connection, never looked back because I don't want to interact with anyone like that

Getting annoyed by some dm's to the point where you'll just cut out and ghost them

Happens to me all the time like these ladies be trying to DM me all the time (never happened) so just block her and be a free bird though there's always more fishes in the ocean so dream big

Ghost everyone just to marry her, only that girl deserves your loyalty and everything

So yea ghosting someone only when you're already in relationship makes totally sense.

There are people who would simp over you knowing you're in relationship so staying away from such people save you time and relationship as well.


Wrapping Up...

In the end we all have been ghosted at some point, I was when I sent a random text to ana de armas (never read my message)

But don't lose hope soldiers, you can't give up just like that. Sometimes we're just suppose to live in our own company so I'd even ghost my boss or colleague when I'd work just to have that peace.

We are all trading our time to get paid, working late and all so yea ghost for extra hours with yourself.

That's all for today, would love to know what's your thoughts on this in the comments.

fin.

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Ghosting is a recent phenomenon thanks to social media, smartphones and dating apps.

Technology makes it easy to meet new people, so interactions have become disposable, and less effort is put into maintaining relationships.

Women will ghost 20x more often than men do at the "getting to know you" stage, but then complain about getting ghosted in the supposed "relationship" phase.

If we want this madness to stop everyone must throw their smartphones off a cliff in unison, but we know that's not gonna happen.

 23 days ago  

Exactly, rare cases when men ghost someone

Relationship nowadays on mobile phones doesn't really work at all

Throw smartphones, yea we all know it's never happening

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