A TRADITIONAL WEDDING

in Hive Learners3 years ago

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The groom comes in dressed in a traditional attire aso oke in an agbada with hat(fila) you can tell what tribe it is from the aso oke.

The traditional attire aso oke speaks a lot as it represents the Yoruba culture, it speaks a lot of elegance when worn, the bride wears the iro and Buba (a top and wrapper) that matches the same color with the groom.

The wedding starts with a formal welcome address by two narrators alaga ijoko(sitting Mc) and alaga iduro( standing Mc) from both parties.Then the groom comes in first to greet the bride's family

A mutual arrangement is required from both families and so a proposal letter is read by the youngest of the bride's family then replied with an acceptance letter from the bride's family to seal the union.

A mutual agreement is done now there's is need to meet the bride's parents.
The groom is escorted by his friends to meet the bride's parents where they all prostrate two times and he prostate alone the third time to his in-laws then both families prays for him.
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He then turns to his parent to prostrate once.
This is done as a sign of respect from the groom to the bride's parents.

Then the bride comes in escorted by her friends kneels before her parents and grooms parents for prayers then proceeds to wear the groom a cap.

Wearing the groom cap is an act done to demonstrate her acceptance of the groom's proposal.

Then the bride is instructed by the mc to pick up a gift from the varieties of gifts brought by her inlaws
she picks the engagement ring and a holy book either Quran or Bible then gives it to the husband which the husband in turn inputs the ring on her finger and she displays happily.

Then both are joined together as husband and wife.

it a customary pattern, it how it been done from generations to generations, showing the richness of the culture
The traditional wedding is a beautiful wedding showing the dignity of the culture.
The marriage is beyond the Union of the two individuals(husband and wife)but also the Union of families
that why all procedures are put in place

The traditional marriage in Nigeria is a beautiful thing that shows the diversity of the Nigerian culture.

culture is of great value traditional marriage honors culture.

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 3 years ago  

Such a beautiful tradition and culture.

 3 years ago  

Yeah it is.
Thank you for dropping by

 3 years ago  

You're welcome.

I can't picture myself doing a traditional wedding in few years time.. omg it going to be fun asin😂

 3 years ago  

😅
Yeah it always fun you know right

Yeah but person wey no get money no fit try am

 3 years ago  

Nice post mate, I'm impressed to read it.

 3 years ago  

Thanks for dropping by I really appreciate this comment .

 3 years ago  

Wowww, your culture is unique

I have gotten lots of other people's culture here in this Community to teach my children too.

We keep learning and advancing.
Thanks for sharing!

 3 years ago  

Yeah my culture can be so unique and I'm glad you find it unique too.
Me too I keep learning day by day from this community
Thank you for dropping by.

 3 years ago  

Learning continues...

Uwc.

 3 years ago  

Traditional weddings are always special,

 3 years ago  

Yeah it brings more visibility to culture

 3 years ago  

Yes friends, have a nice day

 3 years ago  

Very unique culture with unique People celebrating it

 3 years ago  

Yeah it is.
Thank you for dropping by

 3 years ago  

Hahahaha! I've witnessed the way the Yorubas do their traditional marriage ceremony once and I really enjoyed every part of it.

Thanks for sharing with us!

 3 years ago  

Yeah they follow all procedures.
Thank you for dropping by.

Marriage cermonies are awesome to see from different colours. I love the matching colours of the bride and grooms attire😀😀

 3 years ago  

Yeah!!!
In my tribe we follow all procedures when it comes to traditional marriages

That is cool, I did attend one in Gabon and it was similar 😀

 3 years ago  

Eiii you did? Cool
African culture are similar

Yes Gabon and Nigeria the cultures are very similar 😀

You have a very interesting wedding tradition. I hope such won't get lost in these modern times. The ceremony sounds beautiful :)

 3 years ago  

Yes, we do.
I hope so too
Thank you for dropping by

 3 years ago  

I've always known and read about the loyalty of the Yorubas, the act of prostrating shows Allot of respect from young ones to the old it's a good one

But about the MC, why do they have a standing and sitting MC? ... I don't really understand that part or it's reason please throw more light on that.... Thanks

 3 years ago  

One represent the bride and the other the groom

 3 years ago  

Oh okay

 3 years ago  

Omo that couple's picture you used is quite beautiful, man you've got eyes. Those MCs - Alaga Iduro is really talented but kinda cunning in accumulating money. They can suck Dangote dry!!!🤣 @ijohnsen

 3 years ago  

Guy!!! They know how to remove money from your pockets..
Lol