Being a middle man between two fighters has both good and bad outcomes,any consequences might come along, they either succumb to your intervention or you end up been the villain in their story or even be a victim.
I have had quite alot experience being a middle man between two or more people in which I was able to settle higher percentage.
Fight within the family is really what am best at settling, especially between my female siblings,I derive joy in it,as per say men stuff.
Sometimes I shout at them to stop all those abusive words,they dare not disobey,it makes me feel superior.lols.
I have also settled fight between my friends too, they respect me for that ,I find a way to control their minds and calm them both down, that's my way of settling fight.
I also settle fight between strangers too,I could remember much of dispute between strangers I intervened and settled it. But I will share my experience on the last fight I settled between strangers,it was a pathetic experience, an experience I don't pray for again in my life.
It was early in the morning on a Saturday morning,at my hostel, it was a very big one that hardly do everyone know each other,it was up to 120 rooms in the hostel, strangers come in and leave at will,no one cares.
This guy came from nowhere and started shouted on another guy,who lives in our hostel, I didn't know the both,they started making a scene and it was about turning to a physical fight, I came down from the storey to check why people are gathered, behold it was two grown men about to be exchanging blows.
Since nobody was making a move to separate them,I came down and jumped into their middle,I was about to separate them until one of them (the outsider) dipped his hands into his pocket and took a charm, I could tell it with the way the object is, I'm used to seeing them in movies but this time it's real life.
I was about to settle the fight when I saw the object coming towards me, I ran the usain bolt out of me,that was the end of me trying to end fight between strangers.
I was later soliloquizing within me asking myself rhetorical question, "do I even know the cause of the fight, why did I even went there, what if the charm is a deadly one, what if I was even killed.
Since then I had been avoiding fight between strangers.
See how they would have turned man pikin into agama lizard 🦎🤣🤣, lucky you
I have a neighbor who has been unlucky with settling fights he's been bitten, poured hot water, and even beaten in the dark by couples who he went to separate these are different scenarios... So I just learn my lesson from his mistake
Nice content thank God for you 😁😇❤️
Mehn, that's unlucky of him, I hope he learnt his lessons.
It's a great thing to learn from
It makes sense how a feeling of superiority reside among us when our siblings respond to our scolds with submissiveness.
Hehe. The incident is sounding funny at this point, but seriously when it would have happened, it would be horrible. Huuuh it is giving me chills
You feel the way I feel too, the feelings no be for here, I love the vibes
Hehe... Run for your life indeed. That fight was bigger than you. You made the right choice.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
Hahaha, thanks for reading through