Hey Everyone, I hope you are all fine and doing great. Hey Everyone, I hope you are all fine and doing great. This Post is my entry to Weekly Featured Content in the #Hivelearners community. Today's topic to write about is Societal Pressures
I would like to start this post with this beautiful quote by - Auliq Ice
Societal Pressures in any form is not a good thing, but sadly, the society we are living in we start to face Societal Pressures from the early age of our life. Let me give you guys my own example.
When i was studying in 8th class, no body asked me what i want to study, they just want me to study what my elder cousin had studied. I am not blamming anyone for this, i am just sharing what has happened to me and also happening to most of the people living in my country.
if some person is successful by choosing or studying some subjects, it doesn't mean someone else also has the interest to study those subjects or he will get success by studying these subjects.
This continuously happen with me, when i passed 8th class and when i was about to move to 9th class, the same happened and my parents forced me to study the subjects my eldor cousin had studied.
this continuos to happen untill i passed my graduation with average marks.
This needs to stop, the subjects my cousins studied at their time, had important that time, but as the time passes and things changes. their important fades away and new things replaces the old thing.
We need to be update. if someone is having success in doing business, it doesn't mean you can also get success in doing the same business. He has his own luck and you has your own luck.
Life, challenges are different for different purpose.
my life has taught me this lesson and now i don't follow anyone, I do things and pray to God to give me success. If he gives me success, It's good, if not, i stay patient untill something else works out for me.
This societal pressures not only effect our life, it also effect our health badly, i have seen people fallen into health decease just due to these false societal pressures.
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Your write-up really touched. That's what we face,and we can't blame our parents for this, because they want to see us successfully. We don't have to force things as well, success can't be forced.
Hmmm this is what a lot of people are facing in life. Not having the chance to choose for themselves led them into depression and some might not be able to get solution in that depressed state which will lead them to committing suicide.
Our parents needs to stop this act of forcing things on us, they should allow us be the sole controller of our lives.
Oh... it's important to understand Times and seasons. There's time for everything, and misappropriating time and seasons is harzadious. It's important to know what you need at a particular time and go for it. I wish your family understood that with you from the beginning. But it's okay that you've now found stability...
Nice piece @itwithsm
We need to develop our mind according to surrounding. That is a bad one that you wasn't even asked that what you wanted to study and you didn't had your say at that time.
Instead of considering studies as tool of getting money is really bad. Infact, before doing anything people should ask their children that where they want to go!
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It felt like you were talking about my friend.
I seriously don’t understand why parents even do that.
My friend’s dad is a police and he has forced his son to go to the medical school just because he wants a son who is a doctor.
The guy is really suffering there ,all he wants to be is a basketball player.
I just pray his real dreams don’t die.