Me I've felt it, but I don't think anyone has truly felt it for me. It was more of attraction based on what they wanted. You know......
Nevertheless, I was like you. I probably didn't have any features that made me attractive, I guess attraction is the doorway to love.
However there was this orobo lady, she was always saying she loved me, that was during the lockdown. She was probably in love with my bear bear (beards) because she was always touching the beards anytime she says so.
However, we all can tell when we see true love, it's harder for a man.
I smell the one sided love thing...
Its difficult and you may never express your feelings.
Its harder for us and I know why too...
Still on we move...
Its enough that my mummy loves me and I love her too, love na love 😭😭😭 even if boo no come.
Looool I guess we're not in the mind of people hence we can't exactly predict what they feel, whether it's lust, whether it's pity whether it's something extrinsically motivated, we cannot tell. I've opened myself up many times, it wasn't worth it. These things are complicated. People who have it easy don't know the struggle hahaha.
Why are you reading my mind?
Sounding so like me.
I have closed some gates and not sure if i can open them up, its not worth it 😥