Like we all know that life itself is a game on it's own and in that matter we believe and know that is our effort and struggles that we deliver us .
Man and it's challenges is really a mystery because that of the struggle and the endurance did not start today but just that man has that endurance and spirit of taking and accommodating things anyhow he sees it .
But these days the thing are no more as known before now, before now we use to live a life where as a man maybe when you have a very big challenge facing you, you cry out to a friend whom you believe can be sort of help to you and help you out in such situations maybe through advice of finances, but these days it has been a slap to people's face , it has been what is known as see finish , whereby you tell your challenges to a friend and in the next minute you hear it outside.
What do i mean ? I mean that in these present days people don't cry out to friends anymore rather you endure your pain as a man and have your challenges in peace and battle it alone to avoid had i known at last.
The situation of this life presently to me i will say that endurance is better as a man , but if you want to cry out your pain fine , do that in your secret place in your time and lessen the bothern in your heart, that is on your own that is the only big boy cry i can say i support but bringing it to the knowledge of others making it obvious for people to know is really a bad one to me because it is actually going to be a see finish though that is for me and my own personal life .
Big boy endurance can not really solve our problems my dear at a time when you consider all you are going through and feel like easing your mind , it is fine ,it is never a bad thing but to maintain your steez and composure ,you have to do that in your private place to avoid that in which i have been calling see finish because when you are seen finish men will not regard you anymore,but real main that knows what life is all about will still regard you regardless of the see finish.
In conclusion is true i have said mine which i may say is my personal life but i will still advice when you have a challenge that requires been vocal please speak up to avoid dying inside unless you are a type that can endure it and create a means of sorting yourself out fine but if you can not ,forget big boys don't cry and speak up to avoid someone committing suicide or going into health challenges because such situation can put someone into a mental health disorder.
Thank you for engaging in my post today i really appreciate it
There is a level a man will get to and be vocal; not hiding his challenges and feelings because he might get help or not, it depends on those who are around him at that time. A man, too is a human who has emotions and feelings; so, there’s nothing wrong in crying out and then continuing. But it’s essential to have a trusted person they can lean onto and share their feelings.