Just yesterday I wrote a post once friendship, the qualities I look at for in friendship. Before I call somebody my friend, the qualities I should say in the person and in all, I concluded it with, if there is no love, then there is no friendship. Because love is one of the thing that boost the immunity of friendship. If you consider a lot of things that you want to do but because there is love you might either do them or leave them because of the love you have for the friendship. Today, Looking out for Hive Learners Prompt Topic for week 187 edition 1, I realized that it was still talking about friends and friendship. But here, in another direction or perspective of friendship. In the prompt, it focus more on, how friends or friendship bring about happiness. So let's head over to it.
This prompt topic is just in alignment with a lot of things happening within the short period of time. Just last week discussing about happiness, and how money can make you to be happy and solve other problems. We move as deep as comparing happiness with joy. This happened in last Hive Learners discord hangout. And today we are back again to discuss the relationship between happiness and friendship. Happiness is that emotional excitement that comes with feeling fulfilled or accomplished. Which can come as a result of internal factors or external factors. Whichever way, the healthy friendship can give happiness why unhealthy friendship can bring about agony and pain.
In as much as good and healthy friendship or relationship bring about happiness, you have to know that happiness is also in alignment with emotion. That means it must start from you. If everything around you is contributing factor of sadness and agony but deep down within you you determine to be happy although environment has a way to influence your mood and emotions but you have greater and broader spectrum of influence your happiness over other emotions.
Good and healthy relationship or friendship has a will of contributing to happiness. But the deep question is, without friends can't you be happy? Sometime boredom itself makes you to feel sad without any accountable reasons. When you have lively friends around your possibility of always been happy is high. Because you are comfortable with and then being around you. That means they are now part of you and part of those who contributes to your happiness.
Meanwhile, you can still live your life and still be happy. But there is this happiness that come with connection that we can never deny. A good relationship or friendship build not only happiness but great connection that just you alone cannot achieve or build. Therefore if you are opportune to be or have friends who are genuine, I mean a healthy friendship, then value them and treasure the time if people share together that brings joy and happiness. When you are with people who understands you as a friend not those who backstab you, then it is very very possible to derive happiness when they are close with you. Meanwhile does not necessarily mean that one cannot stay on his own and be happy. Just that there is a real happiness that comes with good connection.
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Beautifully expressed! 💛 True friendship really does bring a kind of happiness that stands apart it’s built on love, understanding, and genuine connection.
Hmmm! This is amazing. True and beautiful friends brings good things around us and they also watch our backs when we can't.
Thanks for sharing
Good and healthy friendships is one of the criterias needed to succeed in life.
You are right. Happiness must begin from us and not dependent on anyone, even our friends. When we are happy, we can be happy around friends.
God bless you for this and this was what I was looking for, happiness starts with you as a person, not the other way round.
Human beings are social by nature. Yes, humans can be happy alone, but they will surely be much happier if they have the company of others who surround them with positive light and total love.
Have a great day!
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Good friends fit add joy to life, but real happiness still suppose start from inside you first na am dey always make friendship sweet because if the inside happiness no dey, the outward one no go make sense