In my view, my children are not to be forced to take care of me but I believe I'll have children who won't be burdened to take care of their sweet old mother and father.
Preparation for old age is important. It is to be properly planned for. Some parents only plan is to pile all their hopes on their children who may also be struggling with realities of life.
And when the children doesn't do enough they become bad children forgetting they also have their own issues to navigate.
That's it, it shouldn't be so 🤦♀️