Reflecting On Readiness For Parenthood

in Hive Learners24 days ago

Abortion has to be one of the most complex topic ever to discuss about. If i was to speak basically in relation to my religion i would speak against abortion but in relation to the economy, inflation and crisis or unpreparedness, honestly i am lost of speech.

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Abortion is a bad thing because it involves killing of a baby, so no argument on that it is a bad thing but the problem with it is that if a mother or father is not prepared or does not have the capacity to maintain themself in this economy and survive bringing a baby to this world might be a really tough decision. Each time i pass some kind of areas, i would see a mother with 6 children begging on the road and they all will be be living in a single room also with their dad, imagine this kind of lifestyle, nobody prays for such.

Generally i feel one of the reasons why people commit abortions are because of two things, fear and poverty, This is one of the major reason why there is abortion. The fear of thing what others will say, the fear of probably what your parent might think about you, or the fear of the outcome of unwanted pregnancy. If there can be taken away i feel we have solved most of the abortion problem we have but can fear be taken away when financial stability is not in place or when there is poverty.

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Poverty is an enemy of so many good things, having a baby is blessing and taking a baby's life is like taking someones blessing away. I know of so many people and families fasting and praying to have just a single baby of their blood line. Abortion is not a good thing to do even though sometimes it can be the right thing to do at a moment of struggle, but i can never advice anyone to take a babys life instead i will encourage them not to or if i see the there will be serious problem for keeping the baby, i will just keep shut and hold my mouth.

I can never advcie for abortion because my religion does not accept it but deep inside my mind i know it might be the right thing for some people to do, but talking to me i can never advice someone to talk that step instead i will encourngae the person. I barely know how to lie i am a very real person but when i see a problem is byond my power i keep shut or walk away.

Most situations of abortion is as a result of poverty or fear of early parenthood. I feel people needs to be encouraged that giving birth early is not a sin, this is one way we can get to reduce risk abortion and also empowerment programs should be established to speak against early abortions.

This is my Entry to Hive learners weekly prompt, week 192 episode 1.

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 24 days ago  

Your diplomacy on this topic is rather weird sha. Lol. This is one of those topic I avoid speaking on. Religion aside, reality in, why do people choose to make moves that get them pregnant when they could have avoided it in the first place?

 24 days ago  

konji is real now 😅, not every knows how to control themselves.

 24 days ago  

Abstaining is NOT the only solution there is. There is CD, there are after-pills to prevent these things from happening, but why will people ignore all those and end up putting their lives at risk?

 22 days ago  

I understand your point, like why should they let it get to the stage of abortion.

 22 days ago  

Why should the pregnancy occur in the first place.

 22 days ago  

I guess that should be ignorance because before it get to the pregnancy stage they could have prevented it then

 22 days ago  

Ignorant about the possible outcomes of their acts?

 24 days ago  

I also do t support getting an abortion, instead of doing anything that will put you in that position it is better you just stay away.

 24 days ago  

It's not as easy at it seem, but still that's the best option. boss

 24 days ago  

Some will argue that an early abortion is not killing a baby since it is still in the formation stage and not yet fully formed. People do it for so many reasons; we can only support their decision and not judge them for it.

 24 days ago  

I still think everything should boil down to choice, pregnancy is such a delicate state for any woman and there should always be the place of choice, in my opinion.

 22 days ago  

I agree with you, it is a really delicate state that needs preparedness, if she is not ready nobody should force it on her.

 22 days ago  

Yeah, exactlyyyy.

 24 days ago  

This topic is a controversial one, seriously the decision to abort is a complex one.
Pregnancy can be avoided, there are many means to avoid it in our world now, to avoid aborting, just practice safe safe or birth control.

 22 days ago  

Lol, Safe safe i agree with you too.