Then I speak calmly, try to explain with logic, so that the other person understands that I am not against him, but that we are both in the solution to the problem.
I love this, this is just the solution to any argument. Once the approach is calm, then there will be respect and mutual understanding.
You are absolutely right—if we try to remain calm in the midst of arguments, then a space for respect and understanding is automatically created. Thank you for presenting the point so beautifully, it touched my heart.
You are welcome