Hello, everyone.
I welcome you to my blog and another wonderful edition of the Hive Learner's featured post. Some people feel like they are self-sufficient and don't need anyone in their lives, but the truth remains that until the day we leave this earth, we will keep needing people. Even at death, we actually need people who are alive to help give us a befitting burial and make sure that our body gets the respect it deserves, and that way, we can get the rest we deserve. No one is self-sufficient; no matter how rich and wealthy you are, from time to time you will need people to get things done for you, as you cannot do it all on your own.
We now live in a world where one cannot trust anyone, and keeping friends and people around now seems like a dangerous thing or a wrong thing to do, but with all of that, it does not remove the fact that we actually need friends to do life. Whenever I tell my dad I am introverted and love to spend my time alone behind closed doors, he will always respond that "no man is an island; go out and make connections, make genuine friends, and you will not have a reason to regret it."
My dad's emphasis on genuine friends made me understand not everyone is meant to be your friend, and many people make the mistake of thinking they can be friends with anyone and with everyone as well, and that is how you come across those who will stab you in the back or do things that will make you regret friendship. Select who you get on your side and call a friend carefully; not everyone is meant to be your friend. If you select your friends carefully, that is the only way you get to enjoy friendship. If you call and allow just anyone to be your friend without vetting properly, you will be put through hell in the name of friendship.
Do we need friends to be happy in life? My answer to this question is yes, with the right people as friends you get to see things working seamlessly for you, and when things go smoothly with little or no obstacles, you are happy. That is exactly what happens when you have the right people as friends in your life. Every student has a circle of friends they do things with in school, and even when they are not in school, the right circle of friends covers for them and makes sure that there is no reason for them to fail whether they are present or not.
Life without friends will be lonely and boring, and even more frustrating. Friends are like the spice in our lives; they are there to spice things up. Friends are those who want to see you win, not those who want to see you fail or get jealous when you win; they are those who stick with you through the ups and downs, and they don't leave you when you hit rock bottom or when you need them the most. We cannot do life alone; you need people who will give you the push when needed, people who will motivate you when you are feeling down, and people who you can rely on to get things done and pull strings for you, and you will do the same for them.
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No one can truly go through life alone. Even the strongest people need support at one point or another. Having the right people around makes the journey easier and more meaningful.
With the right people, your journey through life becomes very smooth.
Your post is so real and I can relate to it paa
I used to be a lone wolf but omo I had to understand that "you can't do life alone", you need people.
Friends make your life less strenuous if picked carefully
Being a lone wolf will not help us, we need to go out and make connections.
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