THE FEAR OF DIEING SCARED ME OUT OF MY WITS....

in Hive Learners3 years ago (edited)

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One of the most constant thing in life is FEAR, fear is one of the basic features we human possess, though some people tend to claim that they are bold and courageous but deep down their heart they know that particular thing which make them scared every time...

Fear is not meant for a particular person, it is meant for everybody, fear can come in different ways, it can come as a result of something going wrong for the very first time we tried it or it can be a natural thing that cause you fear...

FEAR doesn't make one a weakling, it is something we don't have control over, it is natural in most cases, you might be able to get rid of some fears in your life but there is a constant fact that you still have the fear of something...

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For example, for those who are scared of heights, if they are thought how to manage and overcome their fears, does that mean they can dine with a LION in the zoo???

No, it is because they know the kind of creature a lion is and fear in that manner is NATURAL, we all fear wild animals especially LION...

A very quick and funny question today is what i am about to talk about..

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   HAVE I EVER BEING SCARED BEFORE???

YES, I have been scared on various occasions, even when i try to act strong by hiding it in the face of the public, deep down in my heart i know i am scared out of my wits which is normal as a guy, i wanted to form a strong boy...

The type of fear i had was the fear of loosing my life after i sustained a very deep injury to my wrist..

   HOW DID IT HAPPEN???

About some years ago, i came back from school on a friday afternoon as you all know friday is the beginning of weekend and so therefore as a teenager, i changed into my play clothes and decided to go play football in the compound opposite my house...

I remember vividly that after i finished changing, the weather had also changed and it started raining soon after and as you all know football played in the rain is one of the best...

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As i was going out, my mum called me and told me to stay back that it is raining and i shouldn't go and play ball in the rain, i refused to listen to her and went and that was how we started this match in my friends compound...

We were all playing and enjoying it, my team was defeating everyone, we were all drenched and at the same time we were all happy, we were three each in a team with 5 teams, shortly after we defeated the last team was when i had this injury...

I was given the ball and then my opponent was trying posses the ball, the compound was all circulated with compound bulbs in a glass covering for light generation at night...

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I will call them that, while trying to maintain my position and also to keep the ball in my possession, i moved towards the wall where one of the bulb's glass had broken and was now pointed out, i had forgotten completely and didn't see it and before i knew it while trying to dribble him, i was pushed forward by my opponent and before i knew it, it was me hitting my wrist against the pointed broken glass..

At first we all thought it was small injury not until i went to the tap to wash the surface and after a minutes, blood started gushing out, i opened the tap to wash it off, i stopped for a while and i saw the white tissue inside and then the blood started gushing out so much that i became so scared and ran home to my mother at home...

Shouting and crying, i called my mother who was fast asleep, she saw blood and was crying and shouting at me that she told me not to go, in minutes the blood was stopped by my mum and she covered it with a cotton wool and gave me some pain killers but i was not ascertained of my injury because i had that cut close to my VEINS...

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I was so scared that my vein had cut because i saw in movie as a guy who was stabbed on wrist was shouting "two veins has cut now" before he died, seeing how close the injury was, i tried to count the veins in my wrist, it was complete but my sub consciousness was playing mind games with me...

I was still scared until i went to a certified doctor and asked if my veins were in tact, she ascertained me that i am okay, my veins were fine and i eventually calmed down but for months i couldn't use that hand, the veins in that hand were not responding actively...

In summary, i lost all courage back then and was weeping bitterly and I asked my mum if anything had happened to my veins because i didn't want to die with a cut veins, the thought of dieing scared the hell out of me, my mum then told me not to worry that my veins were intact, she just kept on telling if anything had happen to my pains, i won't be here talking and my body would have told me since...

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In conclusion, i regretted not listening to my mum but i still went back to that compound to see what injured me, only to see a shred of my skin on the pointed glass and i removed it completely from making another person fall victim, it was a tragic experience for me, i remember i ran out of the compound in my underpants, my mum was the first thing on my mind and truly mothers are the best...

Thinking about that time just made laugh so hard and even till now the cut hasn't fully healed, i guess it was a price i paid for my stubbornness..

it was a lesson full experience but after i recovered from it that didn't stop me from playing in the rain lolz, OLD HABIT DIE HARD😂😂😂😂😂

   THANKS FOR READING AND HAPPY NEW WEEK...
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 3 years ago  

Something similar happened to me a few months ago, but it was with a mirror that broke while I was cleaning it. I didn't even realize I was bleeding initially, I was just too busy worrying about my broken mirror 😂. It was a small cut on my wrist but it was really deep and a lot of blood was gushing out.
Fear gripped me, I even thought I was going to die ( I was probably overreacting 😅).
I had to rush to a pharmacy where I got it treated.
Thanks for sharing!

 3 years ago  

Hehehehehe 😂😂😂 lolz, it was a crazy experience for me too lolz 😂🤣🤣

Thanks for stopping by bro 🌝

 3 years ago  

Stubborn boy! See as you were making me feel so sorry for you now. It must have been really painful especially when you saw how serious it was.

It's always normal to be disobedient for something like that, I'm very sure I would have done the same, I guess you were meant to have that injury, sorry about that Foxy 🥺.

I felt really somehow reading how you got injured, I was feeling like it was me because I have had a similar experience before.

 3 years ago  

Hehehehe 🤣🤣 thank you for stopping by dear, it was indeed my stubbornness lol 🤣🤣🤣

 3 years ago  

You're welcome dear, yes please don't be that stubborn in the future, don't make me worry too much oo, you know I know you now 😏.

 3 years ago  

Okay dear 😊😘, I won't I know you care heheh 🤣🤣🤣

 3 years ago  

Better oo, lolz 😂😂.

 3 years ago  

🤝❤️🙌

 3 years ago  

Smiles 😊.

 3 years ago (edited) 

We should always listen to our parents because they know better.
Thank God you didn't lose your life but at least you learnt a very big lesson

 3 years ago (edited) 

Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣, you get it dear, I really appreciate you stopping by ❤️❤️❤️

 3 years ago  

You're welcome

 3 years ago  

😊❤️😊

 3 years ago  

Damn, that injury must've hurt so bad. Thank God it didn't cut your veins though, it would've become another thing.

Omo, the thought about loosing my life especially to accidents or recklessness really scares the wits out of me.

I'm glad your mom was there at that time. If she wasn't, the matter could've escalated. It's important to have people by our side during frightening moments.

Thanks for sharing Foxy! 😊

 3 years ago  

Hehehehe 🤣🤣🤣 thank you for reading ❤️❤️❤️ you have made a tangible point lolz, your comment is Just too similar to that of @hopestylist...

You guys need deliverance 🤣🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍

Thank you for stopping by ❤️❤️

 3 years ago  

It's my pleasure ❤️... 🤣 Really?
This boy! 😂

 3 years ago  

Hehehe I am serious jo...

 3 years ago  

Hahahahah! 🤣🤣 I don't know if I am the only one your experience was funny to or not. But I can imagine what ran through your mind after you remembered the movie you watched. I can imagine you thinking in your small mind then, I am going to die? and you know children na, you ran to mom expecting she could save you from it. It's a very big lesson, let us learn to obey our parents instructions, it would save us from a lot of harm. Obedience is better than sacrifice. Thanks for sharing this with us

 3 years ago  

Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣 bad guy lolz 😂🤣🤣, Thank you for stopping by ❤️❤️❤️

 3 years ago  

🤣🤣🤣 you're welcome broh ♥️🥰

 3 years ago  

Rock on❤️❤️❤️

Hehe... Injury can't stop the ginger for that joy of playing in the rain. I can totally relate, it's not a feeling that can be replicated. Some might even say the injury was worth it.😂

Thank you for sharing this with us.

 3 years ago  

Hehehe 🤣🤣🤣🤣 that is hilarious 😂🤣😂, I can never stop it oh😂😂😂😂