I have seen many couple argue over silly topic. Unable to get to any resolution the argument gets to an end with no conducive outcome. This may happen to most of the argument. Any major argument often comes to an end without any positive outcome. But still people can get into argument over any topic. People may argue to assert their viewpoint, defend their beliefs, or attempt to influence others. Ultimately, arguments can arise from a desire to control, a lack of trust, or even from a need for drama. In India, argue can broke out at given point of time and may get into a heated scene. Especially when it relates to politics and religion.
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I have seen many instances when two or more persons arguing aggressively. But after a certain point, they either get into physical tussle or start neglecting each other presence. An argument can appear to have no outcome due to several reasons, including the nature of the argument itself, the participants' approach, or the context in which the argument takes place. A flawed argument, even with true premises, may not lead to a certain or conclusive outcome, and if participants are not focused on reaching a resolution or are unwilling to compromise, an argument may simply stall. If participants are unwilling to consider opposing viewpoints or make concessions, they may simply get stuck in a loop of disagreement without reaching any resolution. If participants are primarily focused on "winning" the argument rather than finding a shared understanding or truth, they may be less likely to compromise or reach a productive conclusion.
Initially I like to face any argument. Just to probing my worth or point on specific topic. But most of the time I realize, the people whom I am arguing with, are not interested in knowing the facts, rather they are more into winning. Or probing their superiority over me. Once I see they are not interested in knowing the facts, I started to avoid getting into the argument. Rather I accept whatever they say and remain silent. Silence is very powerful tool that can be effectively be used on many ocassion. Silence can be a powerful tool in argument by demonstrating confidence, allowing for reflection, putting pressure on the opponent, and emphasizing key points. It can also help avoid impulsive reactions and facilitate more thoughtful responses. By strategically incorporating pauses, you can control the flow of the conversation and influence the other person's thinking. By strategically using silence, you can transform arguments from a verbal battle into a more thoughtful and productive exchange.
Arguments, if not handled constructevely, can damage friendships and relationships by creating hurt feelings, eroding trust, and fostering resentment. Over time, unresolved conflicts can lead to avoidance, reduced communication, and ultimately, the breakdown of the relationship. In essence, healthy relationships require effective communication and conflict resolution skills. When arguments are not handled constructively, they can erode the foundation of the relationship, leading to a decline in trust, intimacy, and ultimately, the potential for breakdown.
Avoiding arguments can be beneficial in certain situations as it can reduce stress, buy time to process emotions or gather more information, and prevent unnecessary escalation of conflict. Avoiding arguments can be a useful strategy in certain situations, but it's essential to understand the potential downsides and when it's more appropriate to engage in constructive communication. The key is to find a balance between avoiding conflict and addressing underlying issues in a healthy and constructive manner.
In good faith - Peace!!
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Greetings brother! Here I am taking notes on everything you say hehehe. I have years since I managed to control myself in arguments with colleagues at work or schools, although I never got physical, and in retrospect I find it harder with people who are next to me, ie my family. They are not ugly arguments either, but I do get to hurt with words.
I have practiced a lot to avoid talking at the moment, but I never keep quiet, at some point of the day or week I touch the subject and everything has flowed well, I am glad to have achieved this balance with my mom and my wife especially, with my brother is still in practice 😅 he is a challenge for me, but since a couple of shouts at the beginning of the year everything has remained in healthy respect.
Reflections like this help me a lot and remind me that I must remain firm in my goals, thank you 🙏