Abortion is ending a pregnancy before the baby is born and this is a very serious topic. E eryone has their opinions and some will say abortion is justifiable when you know you don't want the child but I don't support abortion. As you know you are not ready to give birth why did you have unprotected sex?
If you know you're not ready for the responsibility of children, then why not abstain from sex or use condom if you must. Besides we have different ways you can protect yourself and most of these methods are not that expensive. Some people choose to get pregnant and some don't even realize they are pregnant especially first time women. But when they realize they are pregnant, the next thought on their head is abortion, they won't even think about any other thing.
While some women involve the men that 'did the do' 😂 and they will decide the don't want the child that the lady should do whatever she wants. This is what makes some people go into abortion because they can't beat what society will say or the stress of having to cater for the child alone.
People make mistakes, but I believe in taking responsibility for your actions. When a mistake that you made leads to pregnancy, then you have to think of a different solution and I think one option is giving the child up for adoption instead of abortion. At least the child will be alive and might even end up in a loving family.
I think most of the people that get pregnant these days are mostly children of 15 years, although some adults too get pregnant and decide abortion is the best fit. Now when these children get pregnant, because of fear of my mummy will beat me and what society will say, they will turn to their friends who will advice them to remove the child.
Should the men or fathers have a say?
Of course they should. Although the risk and stress is mostly on the woman or mother, the man helped to make the child and he should be allowed to have a say. Some men take responsibility while some don't, some men even decide to raise the kids (although it's not common) even when the woman isn't ready for it and believe me, they do well in raising the babies.
I think that people don't really value life enough today. They see abortion as the easier and most simple way to fix it. But they forget the side effects and everything that comes with the abortion, some people loose their womb and won't be able to give birth for life, some die after doing it when they loose too much blood, that's why I believe that prevention is better. Anything you can't finish, don't bother starting it.
I do not support abortion, I stand for life, I believe that we should take responsibility for our actions. Also use protection of you must have sex and think about the innocent soul who didn't ask you to bring them to the world. Life is precious, let's not throw it away.
image source
What if the baby on the womb was a product of non-consexual abuse? I'm not saying that I am pro or against abortion. For me, it's still a case-to-case basis.
The lady's choice to decide what to do.
Abstinence from sex should be encouraged because I don't understand why you want to have sex when you are not ready for the children to come