Over Sabi no good, because the day you'll think you can do something and therefore you can't, can indirectly put you in distrust and troubles...
If friendship can not be maintained, then why are you in that relationship? I abused friendship I once in my life, and after what I faced, I'm not sure I'll want to do such again in life...
I'm sorry about that "abused friendship" part, but I'm pretty sure your friendships are now fully redeemed. Cheers, brother :)
Yeah thanks man, we definitely need friend in life, but exactly the right ones, if otherwise, we see wrong things...