Looking in the Mirror 🌱 IAAC #64

in I Am Alive Challenge2 months ago


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There are times when things don't go quite the way you like, or they just go plain wrong. Some people are fairly good at dealing with these types of situations. Some not so much. The latter group often tries to find the blame with something or someone else or try to formulate some kind of excuse. And while you might actually not be at fault in the matter, trying to play the blame game is definitely not the best plan of action you can apply.

I haven't been to many job interviews, but a tactic I like to use when asked why I stopped at my previous employment, I always try to answer by first addressing what I could have done better in the previous situation. Even if you're not on the hunt for a job, looking to yourself when something goes wrong and asking yourself what you could've have done better, can have many benefits to your life. One of the most important reasons to do this, is that it brings you self-growth. I mean who doesn't like personal development? And having an overall positive mindset, instead of negative thoughts towards the things you blame, will safe you a shit ton of stress and strain on your own mental health in the end.

So the next time you meet disaster, take a deep breath, look at yourself in the mirror, and enter the wonderful world of self-reflection.

Now for an appropriate daily funny image to balance out all the drama.



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Blame others is the easiest job ever! Exactly how everyone likes... hehehe... To look into the mirror and work on the person that we see is the hardest... But, it pays off... But, there is a catch... it usually does in the long-term, and people aren't really patient these days... :)

Have a great weekend my friend!

No explanation needed for you. We are on the same wavelength. :)
Have an awesome weekend right back at you!


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As you mentioned, there are actually things that happen the way we want in our lives. There are things that don’t happen. In such a situation, it is not appropriate to blame or blame the other. What we really need to do in such a situation is to find out where we are wrong and what actions we can take to correct them. By improving self-development we can minimize the mistakes that happen in life.

You always find a nice way to summarize the message. Well done! :)


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Blamaing others does not lead to any good results, and it definitely does not make you learn from your mistakes, the very foundation of growth is to make mistakes learn from them and adjust so that we can get a better result the next time, that is how we keep on growing, get better and actually move forward, thanks for sharing and stay safe, awesome and alive.

I fully support this statement!
All part of the journey of personal development.

Stay awesome and alive. :)


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how are you dear friend @rarej good afternoon
That is the easiest position to assume, always easier to blame others. The message you teach us today is excellent, without a doubt a self-analysis is better on this type of occasion.
stay safe and take care dear friend
have a wonderful night and a happy rest

Well understood!


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