Hi folks, welcome to my entry to therealtalk prompt #12.
I have gone through lots of entries and after reading some I smiled but one thing stands out , everyone is entitled to his or her opinion and one mans favorite might be poisonous to the next person.
From personal experience I will say that true happiness can only be created by anyone who wants to be happy, happiness one created for himself will always remain with you no matter what happens because only you understand the miracle or things you do to get that inner happiness.
True happiness goes beyond facial expressions, true happiness radiates from the inner person and becomes evident on the physical body, with all honesty it Is only a person that determines if she or he is happy or not because he can decide to be laughing loud at all time while deep inside no single happiness can be found.
That's exactly what we see around, some people who claim that marriage gives them happiness if you mistakenly bump on them and their spouse your eyes will turn 360 due to what you will see, but we they come people won't hear word.
On a personal note I create my own happiness, my happiness is not based on man known as husband because if I base my happiness on my fellow human when there comes changes either willingly or because of unforseen event my happiness will be shattered.
If I base my happiness on material things if anything happens to those material things I will not just lose my happiness I might lose my life as well.
Not too long we heard and read of people who committed suicide because of crypto crash, I will say their happiness was dependent on material things that's the reason why they couldn't bear the crash.
Tho am not saying it's wrong to base your happiness on your beloved wife or husband, or on you millions of $$$ in your bank or crypto wallet but I believe that true happiness is a personal thing.
How I create my happiness
Number one thing that helps me to remain happy at all time is my view of life, yes years back I was seriously affected by delayed expectations, that stole away my happiness, so gradually I learned to accept reality and expect the worse.
Times without number I see myself smiling while looking at creatures like birds, and other creatures, so I pay lots of attention to animals no matter how little they are and where I find them, thinking about them gives me a kind of feeling that only me can define, yes a lasting happiness I will say.
I stay away from anyone who doesn't add value to my life, anyone who always speaks down on others, some people are naturally unhappy so I don't go close to such people.
Gratitude is another strategy of my inner joy and happiness, no matter how little things get better even when things don't get better am always thankful to my creator.
I try hard to avoid a complaining spirit, yes complaining every time will make you always unhappy and ungrateful at all time.
Anytime I feel sad I work hard to figure out why am unhappy, then I will avoid whatever it is that stole my happiness.
I always look out for ways to help people, putting smile on peoples face makes me happy as well, when those people express how my little contribution helped them my joy flies to the moon.
Yes I will tell you that I create my own happiness and it's not dependent on one thing, my lifestyle helps me to remain happy always.
See you guys next time, byeee.
I invite @luchly @wiseagent @ibbtammy.
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STOPI agree with you, money is not related to money or people, it belongs to us, learning to love ourselves and knowing what makes us happy is the task
That's just it, study your life to know what makes you happy, then remain happy.
That's one way of finding real happiness within you thanks for sharing
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