When people or someone places their trust in you and you consciously or unconsciously breaks it, it would be difficult for them to see you the same way as before. It's just like when a man or a woman finds out their girlfriend or boyfriend is sleeping with their best friend or catches them red handed, the relationship would never be the same again, as that incident would continue to replay in their head whenever they see that person. Even forgiveness would not be enough to erase such pain and hurt they felt when they felt betrayed. As it is said, it is easy to forgive but never easy to forget.
The whole idea of trust is to vomit fully to a particular person, you see them and you don't hide anything because you can give them your all, tell them everything even the darkest part of you. Now imagine when that person you tell everything about you decides to discuss your personal matter with other people without your consent or use your words against you, it would hurt you so bad that it changes the way you see them.
When you encounter such people after the breaking of trust, the feeling of opening up to them without hesitation is limited as you have to stop and filter what they need to know. There comes an inbuilt fear of not knowing what people are capable of doing or saying. The bad thing about breaking people's trust is that, it does not just affect the culprit but even the people around you will experience the withdrawal.
In other words, when trust is broken that innocence of giving your all fades away. To gain trust back is very difficult because you would have to invest time and be honest, so doubt there will be no doubt or dishonesty in any way. Although trust once broken can never be 100% amending. Respect people and their privacy when they divulge secrets to you.
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Trust Once Broken Is Never the Same
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Yeah, I agree with ma that once trust is broken, it can never be regained 100%. Many people are not good when it comes to keeping things secret. They go behind saying all manner of things, even after you have trusted them and felt your secret was safe with them.
It’s the same thing with God. God loves us all and forgives us all the time, but He does not entrust things into our hands in the same way again. Let me give this instance there are times we offend God and ask for forgiveness of sin, and He forgives us. But each time we keep going back to the same error, it affects how much He can trust us.
Now, imagine someone who has an anger issue always angry at every little thing. Such a person might even say, If this person offends me again, I could just turn him into a chicken, or wish the ground would swallow someone up. Even if God keeps forgiving such a person, He will never entrust His power to them, because He knows they could use that same power to destroy souls He wants to reconcile to His kingdom.
So, to me, I believe that trust issue is not limited to humans alone even God get trust issue. That is why you see some people who desire to walk in certain spiritual dimensions or receive certain blessings, but they can not, because God knows their hearts.
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You're right. Once trust is broken, it's very hard and most often never rebuilt. Like you said, the whole idea of trust is to, without hesitation, share things that you won't normally share, with someone.
And trust is a very fragile thing, it takes little to actually break it.
Your words are strong that trust when broken cannot be rebuilt. I just believe it will never be same as before, nice entry
When trust is broken,, the innocence of giving your all fades away. A very thoughtful one. Weldon.
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Thanks I like the last point you made respect people and their privacy in that way they can trust you