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Remember in our introduction post when we said we’d be doing something special for weekends? Well… here it is!
Each week, we’ll gather all the best questions asked in our Discord community and post them here on Hive for our Weekend Prompt also known as the #HotSeat. These questions are straight from the minds of our members real people, real thoughts, real talk.
In courtesy of the Weekend Prompt
Originally inspired by:
@sam.hangout – creator of the Hangout vibes.
While our motive for the Real Talk Weekend Prompt is a little different, these amazing initiatives inspired us in their own way. Here, we aim to take questions gathered from our Discord during the week and open them up for deeper, thought provoking discussion on Hive.
If you need anything to ask, please feel free to drop your question in our Discord it might just make it into the next Weekend Prompt!
Objective
The Real Talk #HotSeat Weekend Prompt is designed to:
Bring our Discord conversations to Hive so everyone can join in.
Encourage members to share personal insights, life experiences, and honest opinions.
Strengthen connections between question askers and responders.
Spark meaningful engagement that goes beyond surface-level comments.
If you need anything to ask, please feel free to drop your question in our Discord channel it might just make it into the next Weekend Prompt!
- How to Participate
- Pick one question from the list below.
- Reply to it in the comments section of this post.
- Tag the person who asked the question (their name is beside it) so they’ll know you’ve answered.
- You can only tag one person per comment but you can answer more than one question if you want (in separate comments).
- Tagged at least two user to join the conversation not necessarily from the community remember it an open conversation.
We believe everyone here has unique perspectives and your answer might be exactly what someone needs to hear!
This is your time in the #HotSeat answer honestly, speak your mind, and don’t hold back.
Special Reward
At the end of the weekend, the person whose question gets the most replies (meaning the most times they’re tagged in the comments) will receive 4 HIVE as a reward from us.
So whether you’re answering or asking, you’ve got a reason to join in
This Weekend Prompt are:
What if you find yourself in a situation whereby you have to confine in either a pastor or a doctor, which will you choose?
And what's the reason for your choice?
Side joke : Pastors can use your problem to preach which doctors can gossip about it within their colleagues or spouse.
What lesson have you learnt from your past mistakes experiences,share it so others can learn and not make such mistake
If given a time machine and you could only do one thing with it.
Will you travel back in time to correct past mistakes or travel to the future instead to make sure things are right even before they happen?
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Hello @imis101 I want to answer your question, so if I find myself in a situation whereby I have to confine in either a pastor or a doctor.
First of all, my choice will depends on the kind of situation I find myself, but then whatever it is I think pastor will be in the best position to confine in. Because there's a way that a pastor will talk to you that whatever you are going through at that moment will at least find peace.
Sometimes even a dying soul do fine peace or comfort when talking to a pastor, so if I find myself in any situation I think pastor is the best option for me. Thank you. @emlynx my girl come check this out and share your thoughts.@nsigo1 guys check this out and share your thoughts.
Okay
I understand you ma'am
Thank you very much for your input.
I really appreciate.
You're welcome 🤗
Sure @jmis101 I would definitely choose a doctor because they have the expertise to understand both physical and mental health issues. Doctors are bound by confidentiality and ethical standards to protect your privacy. I believe pastors can offer spiritual support but doctors provide evidence-based advice and treatment that can address root causes. Plus, medical help can be crucial if the problem affects your well-being directly. I hereby invite @seyipaul2 to check this out
I totally understand with you on this.
This is what I wanted to hear and be clear on, which made me to ask the question.
I am with you on this.
Thank you very much dear 🥰
@tigrace thank you for inviting....
Lemme answer @imis101 question
For me I will confine in a doctor ooo, sometime ago, I told our youth leader something that was bothering me and next Sunday he used it to preach. Then later later my friends found out I was the one it happened to 😩
Oh my gosh. so sorry for that, that's so immature of him to do that. I understand your reasons for checking a doctor. Thanks for sharing
It's fine, that's a long time ago
Thank you 👍
You're welcome 🤗
Omo
Can you imagine.
Na waooo
I totally understand.
I would choose a doctor too.
Thank you 😊
Doctors are trained to keep things to themselves...
Seems I spelt your username wrong 🌝 sorry about that
Yes.
They are Confidential.
Not a problem dear.
I was able to see your response on the question 😊
I agree with you o. I will definitely choose a doctor
Thank you 😊
Happy Sunday
Great Sunday to you as well.
Thank you dearie 😘
My pleasure dear.
@chefqueen
Back sometime, I did one thing that taught me a valuable lesson. Being the human I am, I had this neighbor who was struggling and I went ahead to talk about her situation in a not so good way, and God being a justifiable God, did His thing to shut me up. That's when I learnt to never rush to talk ill of someone and to quit being a judge of people's situations.
One lesson I’ve learned is never to act out of anger. Calmness saves you from regrets.
@princessbusayo @soma18 @afrikens @treasuree @quduus1 what do you guys think? And check out what @chefqueen said in the post
I can relate with that 💯
Anger doesn't end well. It always ruin things for us in more ways than we could have thought of.
@jimis101 I'll definitely choose to confine to a doctor even if the doctor wants to spill it out I believe it won't be to the congregation, I've seen cases whereby pastors uses once misfortune to make reference in church even when the person is seated in church there
@emlynx you no invite me abi 😄
True.
I agree with you on this.
Thank you very much dear for your input.
@jmis101 I would rather confide in my doctor because even if he gossips with my situation, at least he would help me solve my problem. I might not even personally know his colleagues, so I'm not bothered, unlike a pastor who would use you as a topic, and members of the church would eventually find out it's you.
That's the point of
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Even if he gossips about it, they would pity you about the situation.
But when it involves a pastor, it will sound like you have a spiritual problem or plaque that is caused by your inability to fight against evil spirits.
Exactly. Wetin concern me with their gossip. What I'm after is a solution 💯
Thank you very much Mama
Oil dey your head.
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@ozibaby @beauty197 @iquo come to this hot seat 💺 and give us an answer.
The seat is too hot, let me get some ice
😁😁😁😄😄 take your time
I will be right back
Okay 👍
@chefqueen I've learned not too look down on anyone because we might be surprised how people change and grow with time.
I've also learned the importance of investing 💰
A few years ago, I was told by some friends about an investment I looked down on. Today, they have financial freedom just from that little investment.
@chefqueen answering your question which is a great one I would always say to people... Never make a promise when you're happy cos it will hunt you really hard when the happiness fades off.
@hamokstitches @ozd come and share your testimonies 😁 with us so we can learn