We all have one black sheep. Greetings, beautiful ladies and gentlemen of the RealTalk community. Thank God for the gift of life and for another beautiful week. Thank you for stopping by my blog. This week's topic says the people closest to you can be the biggest strangers. This is one reality that so many of us have to live with. My sister could say our cross.
I'm a victim of such a person; she is no other than my biological sister. This lady have done so much damage to me and the rest of my siblings. So it happens that these so-called sisters of mine have been envious of me from day one. I don't know why because I mean, I'm not rich, but I don't know why she have this hatred for me. Let me share with you a little of what I've faced in my hands. So after my National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), someone promised me a job. He is a politician who is capable of giving me the job if only my sister didn't spread lies in my name. This man asked me to bring my CV.
I was so happy that I told my siblings the good news, even though it hasn't happened, but we were sure it could work. After I prepared my CV, waiting to be submitted, my sister, my biological sister, went ahead of me to tell this man lies. She told him that I've been living with a man after my NYSC, which is a huge lie. She also told me that I've said so many bad things about him. She did the same when I was about to get married; she went to tell my husband-to-be, who is now my husband, that he shouldn't marry me because I have a bad character.
So many things that I can't even mention here. In fact, there was a time her money got missing, not like missing missing. Sha, it happens that she forgot the exact place she kept the money. Do you know that my sister told our community head, telling him and everyone that cares to listen that I was behind her missing money, only for her to find the money some days later under her bed? I cried myself to sleep like a baby. My sister has done so much harm to me, but I'm grateful to God for strength.
Out of shame she didn't attend my wedding, not that she was sick or something. And not just me; this lady has caused so many fights in the family that as it is now, whatever we hear from people, we now know the brain behind it. And guess what? It's not that I'm happy, right, but she is no longer in her husband's house. At some point we say it is karma that is catching up with her. She wasn't like this while growing up, we don't know what changed. And she is never sorry. We no longer share good news with her, everyone in the family have a share of her peppers. It like she don't have conscious hurting us. We pray she change someday. thank you for reading through.
Wow oooo, can I say, everywhere is the same. I'm too much surprised that what you have shared is exactly and perfectly happening near me, exactly as you have shared and also a junior sister of mine from the same parents, woohoo, life is the same oooo 😂
Smile. That is why I mentioned that almost all families have that kind of person. Thank you for stopping by.
Exactly like my younger sister, as I was reading your's, I was saying how come they're just the same, she had also left her marriage and home, that....is..eeee
Smile such is life.
Yes, life is about consistency and resilient.
Wow this is such a a breath taking what got to me is she didn't have that issue while growing up but all of a sudden she develops the attitude there might be something that brought about that change which she hadn't share with anyone or know one cared to believe her then it might be what triggered the change in her I have experience several of it in different homes not mine I believe by time she would opened up to what brought this changes in her
We pray and hope so. Thank you for stopping by.
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Reading this makes me grateful to have the siblings I have, siblings with unity towards one goal, for my entire 28 years on this planet.
I'm sorry you had to face pain from someone you could've leaned on. But I'm glad you know she can't be trusted, and you better keep your plans and progress to yourself.
Above all, the Almighty got you girl. Hugs❤️!
Thank you my darling for stopping by and always supporting 💕. Hugs 🫂🤗
The first sentence though.
But it's always so painful when the person that is supposed to be for you is the same person that hurts you
Such is life my dear.