Never the same. Hello beautiful souls 🥰. Happy new week and new month. Wishing you all the best. Thank you for stopping by my blog. The theme for the week says, Trust once broken is never the same. Trust is something that can take years to build but a second to destroy. Come in and read the story of my first relationship. So I started dating after my secondary school, some people call it high school all the same.
I met my ex at the age of 18 in a church program; he is a gospel artist, and I was just a choir member. We started dating in year 2011; he was 8 years older than me. People were seriously against our relationship, especially my family, but he was a nice and loving person, so I fought for the relationship. Along the line, after four years in the relationship, he started misbehaving. Men, I didn't know what the problem was, but he kept saying there was no problem. Later I found out about his relationship with another lady, and he said he was sorry that he didn't know what came over him.
I don't know why I was so much in love with a fool like him, but maybe it was because he was my first. One fateful day he came to my house and told me that it was over. So it happens that he was in a serious relationship with another lady already even before breaking up with me. The girl is from another town; she could come and stay in his house for weeks while we were still dating, without me knowing. So when he broke up with me, I decided to move on because I had some suitors waiting already, so I moved on immediately.
A few months later, he came begging for me to forgive him, saying that the lady he left me for is not actually what she presented herself to be. I was still in love with him, so I forgave and accepted him back. We continued dating, and again he started cheating with a different lady while I was in school. A few months before my graduation, I ended the relationship. After my NYSC, he came back again. After he had introduced himself to the lady's family as her husband-to-be, he told me that he wanted to marry me.
I told him that even if he was the last man on earth, I wouldn't marry him because I can't trust him no matter what. Do you know that in our saven years of relationship he cheated four times, That was how we ended things. It was never the same and can never be the same. The trust has been broken. I don't think a broken trust can be rebuilt. Thank you for reading my love story. See you next time.
Rebuilding trust is complex and depends on various factors, including the nature of the breach, the parties involved, and their willingness to work towards healing.
The guy is not working towards it his taking your love for granted that is why he keep repeating the same mistake
I find that trust can be rebuilt over time with effort, commitment, and transparency. But in his own way he don't deserve you ma. I love your action
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