Sometimes, being a “good person” feels like carrying a bag that keeps getting heavier I mean it feels like a burden, but you can’t drop it because everyone’s watching and some people want your mistakes.You keep smiling, keep helping, keep saying “I’m fine” even when you’re really not doing fine. But maybe because somehow, you’ve been trained to believe that being good means never complaining, never disappointing anyone, and never saying no.
But the truth is... it gets exhausting.
And at times you start feeling like you owe everyone something like your time, your energy, your peace. You start like giving a pieces of yourself just to keep others happy. And before you know it, you’re running on empty, wondering when someone will finally ask, “Hey, are you okay?”
I’ve always want to be there. I always wants trying to do the right thing. Always want the one people could count on, even when I couldn’t count on them. And honestly, it feels nice at first being that dependable person, the one who always shows up. But then, you start to notice something... nobody’s showing up for you.
It’s crazy how “good people” are often the loneliest ones. Because we think setting boundaries makes us selfish. We think saying no makes us rude, but not in every situation. So we keep stretching ourselves thinner and thinner, until there’s nothing left but tired smiles and quiet frustrations.
But you know what I’ve learned? Let me tell you being good doesn’t mean breaking yourself to fix others. It doesn’t mean saying yes to what pleases you or when your heart is screaming no. You can still have a kind heart and strong boundaries. You can still care deeply and protect your peace.
Sometimes, being a good person may means walking away.
Sometimes, it might means saying “I can’t do this right now.”
And sometimes, it might means choosing yourself even if people don’t understand it.
Because kindness without limits turns into self-betrayal and that's the fact
And you can’t pour love from an empty cup, not possible.
So yeah… be good. Be kind. But don’t forget to be human too.
You deserve the same care you keep giving to everyone else.
Have you ever felt like being “the good one” was starting to break you a little?
It really good to be kind thanks for sharing into the real talk
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