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RE: Lock yourself up

in Galenkp's Stuff • 2 years ago

you posted three times in the day...probably that's the reason...

Hmm alrights will take note of this, thanks for taking time to check for me! 😊

I was confident that seeking your guidance was a wise choice, as you never fail to provide me with a fresh perspective on how to approach this insignificant downvote.

While I can handle receiving few upvotes or limited engagement on my posts, I never expected that a downvote would rile me up this badly. It's perplexing, considering how distinct these two experiences are, isn't it? Nevertheless, Like you said, it's best to accept it gracefully, chalk it up to misfortune, and continue moving forward! 💪

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People don't like the feeling of having been rejected, they feel somewhat less because of it I guess...but in your case here you're not less, you're just someone who got a downvote.

You're not going to win every time, no one will, so understanding how/who to be when it happens is important. Rejection, failure, a bad result...it doesn't define who we are...how we deal with it does though.

Great lessons come from the negative aspects of life, as in your case today, and I'm sure you'll benefit from them; I know because I have benefitted from my own. You have a long way to go and reacting poorly every time a minor glitch occurs is never going to move you forward as well as if you put those things in perspective and deal positively with those deemed worthy of attention.

Be your best version despite others, meaning, you just be you and let others be them, you'll never be able to control others so don't try.

You're absolutely right about this. I can only strive to become the best version of myself and accept that the external factors are beyond my control. There is still much for me to learn and find serenity in such circumstances.

Today, even though it was an undesired and unexpected lesson, reminds me to leave the past behind and not allow negativity to influence or ruin my mood.

Perhaps I should consider spending more time in nature to find my inner peace 😅

Today...reminds me to leave the past behind and not allow negativity to influence or ruin my mood.

Yep, it's always a good way to be; not always easy to do, but important to do as often as possible.

Perhaps I should consider spending more time in nature to find my inner peace

I agree.

Either thank you for your advice and sorry for taking up your columns in the comment section once again! 😅

Lol, no stress...I like when people comment and don't mind this comment thread at all.

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