So true.
I was telling Frank that it's a bit like a click sometimes. One side is bitching about the other, and they get mad at you for "being friends" with the other side. "Come to our side, it's better." It's a shame because I used to be involved so much in so many communities for so many projects. Now I'm involved with only select things, and I'm focusing on getting what I do out there, as opposed to trying to be part of something for recognition that will never come. I've learnt to let go, of sorts.