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Kindness Isn't Always Appreciated
Since childhood, we have been introduced to various good things. Being a good person for yourself and the environment is something you should always do. However, sometimes it is a disaster. Isn't that funny?
Being a good person is expected by everyone. But at certain times, cut it out. The joy of doing good things from time to time makes you unappreciated. Why? Because the world is harsh, man!
Someday there will be people who will see your kindness as an opportunity to bring you down.
There's no need to help other people if you can't do it. It is best if you are successful in helping others even if that person appreciates your good deeds. You are happy because you can share kindness, even very happy. You feel compelled to help others. Not being able to help of course will feel heavy to run. Feelings of discomfort, but one day you hurt yourself. There are still many ways to be a good person, don't be forced if you can't help.
This world is difficult, it is forbidden to do good when competing to get opportunities in front of our eyes. Life is full of good things. But, sometimes there are a lot of bad things too. Living in a world of harsh realities.
Therefore, you are prohibited from doing good when competing for opportunities. Opportunities don't mean you can get them every day, so stop being a good person first. Because when competing in any case, your rivals will do the same. It is not kind enough to take advantage of rare opportunities. It doesn't mean cheating, it's just that from now on do good things where they are most needed.
You don't have to do good when you're in trouble. Getting harassed, then you just want to shut up and smile? You should avoid doing good when you get into trouble. As many girls experience, abuse. Women often get things like that, one of which is because girls are considered weak creatures. Today's girls don't just stay home and don't get the education they deserve. You have to start to be brave and fight against those who make you feel guilty or in trouble.
When doing nothing out of fear. Change this habit from now on. Dare to act as long as you are right. Don't just be quiet or smile to avoid telling the truth.
You can't be a good person when you are bullied. Whether the bullying is physical or verbal, you need to fight back. That way, what you do will teach them not to do whatever they want. Show them that you are brave enough to speak up and prove to the world your oppression. You will no longer be underestimated.
Good is synonymous with smiles and friendly words. But if it's not you, why keep doing it? If you're not the kind of person who smiles a lot or is naturally friendly with anyone, then don't even try. Forcing yourself to do what you really shouldn't do is just torturing yourself.
As long as your actions are still at a reasonable level, there is no harm in being maintained. Because life is only for a short time and it would be a shame to just spend it and go with what most people want to see from you. Start loving yourself and stop agreeing with what people say.
Being nice will gradually make you look down on others. Because at certain times you may not always be able to do good.