I attended my high school graduation with unmatched shoes.
Hahaha. Odd shoes and a fondness for cemeteries. You and the brother would get on like a house on fire:)
Regarding the cremation, the professor noted that it was not carried out on site and that the remains were not necessarily local, having possibly been transported over long distances for burial in the tombs, all of which strikes me as a fair amount of informed guesswork.
The atmosphere was cheery, the weather was good, the brother's wellies and four hounds attracted a fair few admirers and the craic was ninety. A great day out.
All my best wishes to you and yours.