Blogging challenge part 04 #21 what advice would you give to somebody who just start dating?
So if your single friend or somebody ever comes to you looking for relationship advice either first timer or not, here's how to do it the right way.
Giving someone love advice that's actually helpful is a lot harder than it seems. For me when your single friend or somebody is asking for some guidance, it's natural to give advice based on our experiences.
When you're in a relationship and you've successfully overcome challenges, you've worked through communication issues, and you've found that perfect balance between being independent and being part of a team or a partner, so my advice to somebody who is starting dating is,
Take it easy or take your time knowing that person you like.
In 100% love just give half of it, it still good thing to love ourselves it comes of a situation like that.
You are responsible for your own happiness so you have to be gentle it comes knowing someone you like.
STOP waiting if you know there is nothing to wait, just live your life and face the future.
Mirror other peoples relationship, just like you have to think twice. Example for me I always think how does my friends or sisters relationship to their partners, What kind of attitude do they have and how they understand and care to each other, always look for an act not just based on a words or how they speak.
Listen Without Making Any Judgments Or Assumptions and always observed how compatible both of you it comes of a thing that you dont really like and opposite to your partner.
We need to know how to Identify our Patterns, our style so people can understand and accept for who we are and what we have, remember always be honest! Honesty and being respectful is one of the greatest things we should have in a relationship.
Be positive no matter how hard the situation you have, if you and your partners have misunderstanding try to give space and time then start talking about it gently, there's no problem cannot solved if we will give time to open up and talk so that we can understand the both sides feeling,
Don't abuse someone or do not control someone instead be openminded and shared of what your thoughts or ideas so that your bond will be more developed and explorings things with your partner is a very good thing in a relationship.
Dont put boundaries to others, You can’t put boundaries on someone else—only yourself. If someone is treating you badly, you can’t change their behavior. But you can ask yourself why you accept it and how you can put a boundary on yourself so that you won’t accept it again. It made me take more responsibility for my role in bad relationships. Instead of feeling like a victim of circumstance, I was empowered to reject bad treatment and choose a different person. Also, [remember that] life is a self-fulfilling prophesy. If you believe you are undeserving of happiness, love and prosperity, that’s what the universe will give you.
Thank you for reading this I hope you got some ideas from me. Godbless.``
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