BLOGGING CHALLENGE- 3 ESSENTIAL QUALITY THAT WOULD HAVE MY IDEAL PARTNER.

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A relationship is very massive to build. It takes time to have a feel of what it really entails and to have a feel of a good relationship you need to find yourself an ideal partner. Finding an ideal partner to spend the rest of your life with isn't going to happen as easily as how we imagine or experience in movies. Partnering with someone involves two different characters altogether. The strength of a relationship is based on the characters of both of them. Having an ideal partner can have an incredible impact on your relationship. At times having a mismatch in qualities hardly builds up a relationship rather sinks the relationship. Personally, we all have some qualities we would want to see in our ideal partners. Three(3) essential qualities that would have my ideal are.

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-The Ideal partner portrays trustworthiness
Trust is the foundation of a relationship. Without trust, there is nothing. Trusting someone is not only about believing in the person alone but also its a whole investment in the wellbeing of the person. Trying to trust someone can be very difficult under normal circumstances but the funny aspect of is not everyone deserves your trust.

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Trust is essential because when it is broken, its very difficult to restore and therefore limits the engagement of both partners in the relationship. When we trust someone it reduces our uncertainties about what the future holds for us. With trust one discloses his or her innermost thoughts and believes that it wont be used against their future misunderstang.

-The Ideal partner which is loyal
Loyalty means going down with someone whether they are wrong or right, but tell them when they are wrong and help them to get it right. Sometimes our partners may be in a bad or good circumstances but which ever way we find them we should always stand for them. We don't know when they would need our support.

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Loyalty makes someone know there's always someone who would stand by them to help. As humans we want to experience comfort and safety in the arms of our partners. In many times we try to avoid problems because we think that's the only way to be happy in a relationship but personally i think standing up with your partner to solve the problem together helps to maintain the relationship

-Ideal partner should Teamwork with me
Teamwork makes dreams work. Whenever partners teams up to work together they achieve at least 90% of their goals in the relationship which makes the relationship healthy and productive. Humans are social by nature so we need some people to communicate and cooperate with. We may sometimes think we may be acting as a team but unknowingly not.

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Teamwork does not regard negative talks on the weakness of each other but to appreciate and value what your partner contributes to build up the relationship. We should be able to engage ourselves in each others visions for th e future and work towards it.

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Another beautiful publication that allows us to get to know you a little more about the three qualities that you show us are essential in a relationship.

Yeah.😊 It's always nice to be in a good relationship.

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Great! I mean, this is a beautiful and well detailed write of the qualities you expect your partner to possess. Emphasis on an "ideal partner" because lots of people get married to someone that doesn't match their energy thus, divorce comes.
I'm glad that you would love to seek such amiable traits in a partner. Although being loyal could be difficult in some dire situations but I guess people who love each other try to be better. Well done.

Well, the qualities you point out are really indispensable. I am now 13 years old with my second husband, and it has been a unique experience; and the relationship has been maintained and grown thanks to mutual commitment and loyalty, as well as respect, and obviously love. Good thoughts. Greetings and blessings.