Love can hurt us so much when the person we trust with our love reject us on the go, the way I lived my love life is, I will not put much pressure on you, I will let you be, if I called and you don't answer and then you don't call back, I will not try to called again, I can't be forcing myself on anyone, no matter how much I love you, I will stop when I finds out you don't need me anymore, I always carry it on my mind that we might not be together, if we were not destined to be, so if I buy you something, I will count it that I have given you that one.
I do all this to prevent my heart, because I do not want someone to hurt me the second time.
So sorry dear friend, the pains of love disappointment is always too much, be with the one who loves you, it's good that you find someone that console you and love you endlessly.