My life before kids.
To be a monther is what every woman wished for herself. Children on the other hand is a blessing full of responsibilities. I want to appreciate the author of this challenge @victoriabsb for the effort you put to come up with this contest idea. Before I give birth to my daughter, I was leaving a free life, have all the time for myself, spend my money on myself. Hahahaha, it was really a nice moment. I can remember in the year 20005, when I traveled to Anambra State Nigeria to spend the holidays with my Aunt. Later in the year 2012 when I finished learning a skill, I bought many wears for myself, eat what I want, hang out with friends and come back when I want because, I had no child waiting for me at home. Seriously, singleness is a blessing.
Do you know that when I was single, I used most of my time to travel so many places in my country? Oh mine what a world!!!. Sometimes I will be awake playing games telling stories with my siblings. Have more times to read and meditate on God's word.
What I miss most and the biggest thing I see changed in my life because of becoming a mother.
What i miss most is the good time I spent together with family and friends. Apart from that, I calculate now before i spend because i will think about my child first before myself. I know longer move to places, even holidays now is meant for my child not me again. Since I give birth to my child, I saw a big change in my life. The first Change was to breastfeed my child. It was a big change because I felt pains on my nipples for more than 2 weeks before I get used to it.
I passed through stomach pains and don't sleep well again at night. I became a musician overnight, singing for my child when she is crying haha. Worries is another big change. It comes when my child is sick, I will be thinking of what to do to save her life. Last but not the least, right now, my breast is no more standing erect as is usual becoming a mother was the cost of that. Don't you agree with me that it is a big change???
One thing I wish I could have done before becoming a parent.
Wish is part of life and as a mother, I wish i allow more time to pass before going into marriage. Reason??? I would have make more money for my upcoming kids. Kids needs money, time and energy, I would have had a lot of money before becoming a mother. But all the same, am not regretting having my first child. Though life has not been easy, but we are still making it on a daily basis.
Mummy and baby
Please I want to remind my dear friend @marajah to take part in this contest.
Comparto con usted lo de haber tenido más tiempo de reunir dinero para darle mejores cosas a los hijos, tener hijos es una labor costosa pero vale la pena vivir esta maravillosa experiencia, lindo post amiga muchas bendiciones para ustedes 🤗
Shulamite is an amazing baby girl I have fallen in love with, she's lovely and is worth all the care I world
Being a mother comes with lots of challenges but it's cool, it's a blessing to have the privilege of motherhood
Hahahaha, #chichieze, you will not stop being mean. What did you say happened to your breast? Apostle must hear this hahahaha. Haha motherhood is a blessing
En realidad todo lo que dices es cierto, no he viajado ni dedicado tiempo solo para mí, más que un par de horas, y eso pensando que los niños estén bien, quien los está supervisando, escribir como están las cosas y así sucesivamente. No me compro ropa desde hace mucho tiempo tampoco. Al igual que tú, no me arrepiento de tenerlas en mi vida!
My dear being a mother is not a small work. No, I have many responsibilities to care for on a daily basis.
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Thanks so much for coming around again. I will check the current post as you mentioned
You are welcome @chichieze, that's with pleasure! We wish you a happy buzzy week 😊👍🐝
Hi @ chichieze, nice post, you have said it all . Life is not so easy as we think, full of responsibility. I discovered, when you are single, you traveled a lot, on 2005, you traveled to Anambra state Nigeria, enjoyed yourself. But when you became mother, it full of responsibility. Keep it up.
My brother, my movement has been limited since I became a mother. I only think about my child, work and business. Well, let's keep pushing harder