First time moms tend to get a lot of attention the first few days but then the support disappears completely, the messages stop because no one writes you to know if you need help; let me tell you that even though I am alone in another country and I have not had help from a person, I kept getting text messages advising me what to do. Motherhood has not been easy for me both in breastfeeding and baby care, having to learn it alone without anyone's support is difficult, staying awake for many hours in a row is complicated, the body begins to ask for a break which for a mother does not exist, even that is my case, other mothers are lucky enough to have a support even if the children are big.
I believe that every mom needs help, mainly emotional, because this stage, although it is beautiful, is complicated and every day it becomes more difficult, I feel that just having a person to vent after a terrible day is very useful, also favorable to have someone to put yourself in your shoes because there are many bad people who do is criticize you, although you say not to pay attention to the negative comments will always affect you no matter how strong you are.
However, there are mothers who have told me that they prefer not to have help but I know that mom will need it someday because every mom needs it even if it is just to give her encouragement, since the mood affects both the child and the mother; it is important to recognize when we can no longer continue and need help, it happens to me that sometimes I can not with all the duties of the house, which I would like to run away and not return.
Taking into account all that mothers do, they should not be forgotten, it will always be nice to receive a message asking how you feel and if you need support, in addition to comfort you will feel loved by someone, I feel that every mom lives her experience in different ways, some have support, but others do not, for that reason if you have an acquaintance who is going through motherhood do not hesitate to help even if she does not ask you believe me she needs it. Being a mother is to never stop needing help from other people.
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Amiga bella tienes toda la razón. Siempre se necesita algún tipo de apoyo. Incluso cuando ya están grandes así que cuánto más cuando son pequeños.
Y es así como dices tu, en tu caso que estás sola en otro país es tan importante aunque sea un mensaje para confortarte o tener alguien con quién descargar un poco.
Un abrazo
Así es amiga, siempre vamos a necesitar un poco de ayuda en esta etapa. Gracias por la visita, saludos! @rlathulerie