Baby and I writing exams

in Motherhood11 months ago

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My baby and I

Good day lovely moms!

I feel happier anytime I goes to school with my baby it feels different than when I do go alone though I do take time to plan and prepare daily on how I'm going to manage for the day. I plan on what meal to prepare after lectures and what to wear I like to see her properly dress, I love that feeling of fulfilment the comments I hear from my coursemate gladdens my heart...one of them once said to me seeing you with your baby will make one wish to have one too even when the person is not ready to get married or to be a parent lolz.

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My baby and one of my coursemate in school during our class presentation

Most atimes I don't take her to lectures because my mom is always around to help me take care of her unless if she is busy with something that requires time or she went for her business then I am left with no choice than to take her to school with me. Going to lectures with baby isn't easy due to distractions, I can hardly concentrate in class when the lecturer is tutoring but even at that...there is this immense joy of been together spending time and creating memory especially in classes.

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Mommies and their daughters
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Exams days are fast approaching and is always reading time, I wondered how are am I going to do with my baby? Oh I forgot my mom is here but what if she's not around what will become of me? I asked myself, well I just have to manage on my own but is not thesame like going to lectures, this is different. Fortunately for me mom was around with us for two weeks before she traveled, I was having just one week to complete my exams. I saw my coursemate with babies while writing their exams sometimes the invigilator will scold them for coming to write exams with their babies...the invigilators keep telling them to come with a helper who will stay with the baby outside the class, permission will be granted to nursing mothers to breastfeed their babies if the need arises but what if the person doesn't have a helper? What will become of the students. Apart from the countless disturbance that babies give their moms during exams not to talk of the sleepless nights, they also deny their moms from reading. I face that more often at home... seeing all that in the examination hall I wondered how am I going to manage without my mom lately she's has been my saving grace, at least mom will babysit her for me whenever my baby won't let me read due to her excessive demand.

I got to manage on my own during those times especially in terms of reading ,studying, the sleepless nights...I stopped cooking and buys more of provisions to enable me create time for myself and to read as well . It was difficult but I pull through thank Goodness! After my exams it was a breath of fresh air at last to rest, watch good movies, relax, sleep and eat good foods which I denied myself all this while during exam period.

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Awwwwww 🥰
Glad you made it to the last paper despite the stress. Your baby did well to you oo, if she had given so much trouble, you would be biased all through. Motherhood isn't easy indeed then schooling with a baby? So tedious
More grace mummy 😍

Thank you dearest...is not easy but I'm getting used to the whole thing, baby hardly disturb wen she's out but only when she is at home. Motherhood is a beautiful journey I'm happy because we learn through experience, hugs 🤗❤️😘