I took Sabu to the doctor that day.
I went and saw a very long serial 7 There was no way but to sit and wait. Among the many patients there was a boy of the same age as Sabu At first I thought of the lady as my mother, but after a while I realized that she was Nanu or Dadu.
The boy was very naughty. Sometimes in this chair, sometimes in that chair. Never-again peeking into the chamber.
The use of the lady to accompany these little mischiefs of the little grandfather was very rough! After a while, Babu was scolding and talking rudely with his mouth. In response, the boy was also abusing Nanu. Which is very indecent.
As soon as the boy came and sat next to me, I asked in a voice full of Maya, "Baby, what is your name?"
The boy stared at me in amazement. It was as if someone was talking to him for the first time today.
I would say adults are responsible for such behavior of children. Because a child learns to use from his mother and close relatives. Children are innocent and imitative.
Children have to speak sweet language. They have to be explained slowly. Screaming loudly, not shouting. Not using obscene words.
Even if they do something wrong, adults should try to influence the child's mind in such a way that he or she will regret it. Repent and learn to say sorry.
And he learns to be committed to his mother so that such injustice will never happen again. But if you misbehave in the first place, the child will have a negative reaction. Far be it from him that he should repent of his iniquity; As a result, he will continue to do the same wrong thing over and over again.
Used as a mirror. If you treat someone badly, you will get back the bad. Not good.
So I would say use gentle with children Speak softly, not in an irritable mood with the baby.
Now if you say your child is naughty from the beginning, it is not acceptable. Children are like clay They will learn what is taught to them from the beginning You will learn to use it as it is used.
So we should all be a little more careful with our children. Should be used well with children. Children should love. Just eating food on time and falling asleep does not make love. It is also good to use with children.
See how much our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) loved children. He used to talk with a smile. He even played with them.
When we kill our own children, when we rule, we don't have any fear of anyone else Don't be afraid if I give you one more slap. I think this is my child. There is no one to tell me, no one to catch ৷ In fact, the people of the world have no fear of God. Because Allah is watching everything. He is the judge How to get rid of him? A small child is a trust given by God. The best gift from God.
Will you be forgiven for betraying this trust given by Allah?
Have you ever wondered how the giver would feel if someone gave you a gift and you didn't evaluate it properly?
May Allah Tayala give us all the right understanding. Amen