I remember making my friend's parents laugh because despite having never been to their house before I "magically" knew where to find everything XD (I just expected potato peeler to be in the first drawer and kitchen knives in second drawer as I couldn't see a knife block and there they were), some things just work enough to be commonplace XD
Least you two are about the same height right? J tends to design the kitchen around himself as he does most of the cooking and at our last house this meant the microwave ended up on top of the fridge which was fine for him and a minor safety hazard for sibling dearest and I XD
General volatility is why I don't make 5 year plans x_x